Mistress Amy shares her thoughts on Collaring
A post from one of Mistress Amy's followers...
Ms. Amy has been in the lifestyle for years, and She has never before, She says, taken a collared sub. Ms. Amy has been a prolific sessioner, and party maker.
She has generated a good bit of controversy and based on Her reviews a goodly bunch of very loyal subs and slaves.
She is, by Her own account, addicted to the bdsm scene, loving every minute of it and every single maddening twisted turn of events.
While Mistress Amy acknowledges She doesn't like every client or would be client, She adores, as only a Mistress can adore, many of the men She's met through this world. So, it is a big deal to Her, that She's giving Her first collar. She's thnking long and hard about it. She's made up Her mind to do it. i am not 100% positive that She's determined who, yet.
What will the collar mean to Her. he has certain priority responsibilities to Her and She will give him certain priority privileges. he will get to take Her to dinner, he will get to take Her shopping, maybe even to comment on the clothes She's buying before the commitment is made, he may be privileged to go away with Her on vacation, to sleep at the foot of Her bed, if it is convenient for Her, and he will always have ready access to Her, first to get his emails and PMs answered, first to get the appointment he wants (or needs), letters of recommendation and use by other Dommes (if She so intends to use Her property) and responsive behavior in public places. he may even accompany Her to events in the future.
Now, who will get this collar? i have no idea.
i have seen lots of the doting reviews, and even commented on them. But, i really don't know, and She did not give me the slightest hint. When i asked why not, She said: "I will be amused to see who speculates as to this." So, there you have it, Ms. Amy fans . . .
Mistress Amy's Response
No, this is not a contest and my heart is not something that can be easily won. Nor is this something to be taken lightly.
I believe he was referring to a post in which someone said there were three kinds of collars: Training Collars, Collars of Consideration, Formal Collars. Collars are extremely intimate and very personal. I will be looking out for the well being of this sub in the same way he has looked out for my well being.
No we are not moving on to a lifestyle relationship, but there are certain aspects of our relationship that go beyond the professional "domme/sub" relationship and our activities have transcended sessioning to a deeper connection. To me the collar is a symbol of exclusivity between the domme and the sub and will allow for a much deeper relationship. Not everyone can win a collar or attain collared status.
This is not a contest where you do so many sessions or follow protocols or do certain activities. It is more about the mental, emotional, spiritual connection between me and another person.
I actually do enjoy sessioning and I cannot think of one slave yet that I have sessioned with that has disappointed me.
Yes, I have had a few no shows, I have had my share of wankers initially, but almost everyone who has found me or scheduled a session with me has been very enjoyable to session with. I cannot think of a single session I did not like or enjoy yet.
Actually, I forgot that I had two boring slaves.
Also, one that I see regularly is kind of lame. He won't fully submit and can't seem to keep up with my creative energy.
Yet, he keeps coming back for more...I tried to tell him he was a lame loser, but he misunderstood my verbal abuse as part of a humiliation act. I also sent him to another Domme and he still returns. I maintain low communication levels with the boring ones.
I much prefer my whores to have substance...
My fav. subs are quite evolved creatures- full of life, ideas, and spirit. Sessions are MUCH more fun when we both view it as an "experience" instead of an alternative way to physically "get off."
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From one of her clients/subs...
Let me start off about how excited I was when not only did I see a post about Mistress Amy's first collar but later when I checked my email I saw I had been contacted by her, with the subject of the email just reading "Collar".
I anxiously opened the email only to find instructions from my wonderful Mistress ordering me to purchase the very expensive collar from a high end jewelry store for the sub she wants to give it to (Mistress Amy took great delight not only in informing me that I was NOT the chosen one to have the honor of her first collar
Ms. Amy has been in the lifestyle for years, and She has never before, She says, taken a collared sub. Ms. Amy has been a prolific sessioner, and party maker.
She has generated a good bit of controversy and based on Her reviews a goodly bunch of very loyal subs and slaves.
She is, by Her own account, addicted to the bdsm scene, loving every minute of it and every single maddening twisted turn of events.
While Mistress Amy acknowledges She doesn't like every client or would be client, She adores, as only a Mistress can adore, many of the men She's met through this world. So, it is a big deal to Her, that She's giving Her first collar. She's thnking long and hard about it. She's made up Her mind to do it. i am not 100% positive that She's determined who, yet.
What will the collar mean to Her. he has certain priority responsibilities to Her and She will give him certain priority privileges. he will get to take Her to dinner, he will get to take Her shopping, maybe even to comment on the clothes She's buying before the commitment is made, he may be privileged to go away with Her on vacation, to sleep at the foot of Her bed, if it is convenient for Her, and he will always have ready access to Her, first to get his emails and PMs answered, first to get the appointment he wants (or needs), letters of recommendation and use by other Dommes (if She so intends to use Her property) and responsive behavior in public places. he may even accompany Her to events in the future.
Now, who will get this collar? i have no idea.
i have seen lots of the doting reviews, and even commented on them. But, i really don't know, and She did not give me the slightest hint. When i asked why not, She said: "I will be amused to see who speculates as to this." So, there you have it, Ms. Amy fans . . .
Mistress Amy's Response
No, this is not a contest and my heart is not something that can be easily won. Nor is this something to be taken lightly.
I believe he was referring to a post in which someone said there were three kinds of collars: Training Collars, Collars of Consideration, Formal Collars. Collars are extremely intimate and very personal. I will be looking out for the well being of this sub in the same way he has looked out for my well being.
No we are not moving on to a lifestyle relationship, but there are certain aspects of our relationship that go beyond the professional "domme/sub" relationship and our activities have transcended sessioning to a deeper connection. To me the collar is a symbol of exclusivity between the domme and the sub and will allow for a much deeper relationship. Not everyone can win a collar or attain collared status.
This is not a contest where you do so many sessions or follow protocols or do certain activities. It is more about the mental, emotional, spiritual connection between me and another person.
I actually do enjoy sessioning and I cannot think of one slave yet that I have sessioned with that has disappointed me.
Yes, I have had a few no shows, I have had my share of wankers initially, but almost everyone who has found me or scheduled a session with me has been very enjoyable to session with. I cannot think of a single session I did not like or enjoy yet.
Actually, I forgot that I had two boring slaves.
Also, one that I see regularly is kind of lame. He won't fully submit and can't seem to keep up with my creative energy.
Yet, he keeps coming back for more...I tried to tell him he was a lame loser, but he misunderstood my verbal abuse as part of a humiliation act. I also sent him to another Domme and he still returns. I maintain low communication levels with the boring ones.
I much prefer my whores to have substance...
My fav. subs are quite evolved creatures- full of life, ideas, and spirit. Sessions are MUCH more fun when we both view it as an "experience" instead of an alternative way to physically "get off."
-----
From one of her clients/subs...
Let me start off about how excited I was when not only did I see a post about Mistress Amy's first collar but later when I checked my email I saw I had been contacted by her, with the subject of the email just reading "Collar".
I anxiously opened the email only to find instructions from my wonderful Mistress ordering me to purchase the very expensive collar from a high end jewelry store for the sub she wants to give it to (Mistress Amy took great delight not only in informing me that I was NOT the chosen one to have the honor of her first collar
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