No arm twisting needed.
Greg if often asked by men who would believe they want their wives to cuckold them for "tips" on how to approach and ultimately persuade them to try it. I was recently asked and I can't speak for other married women as there are so many variables in people's experiences and drives. This is how it was first addressed between us.
I was the one raised the issue about our declining frequency of sex. Plus Greg developed some ED issues in his mid 30s. The pills made it work but performance anxiety and cumming too fast had set in. On top of that the amount of hours away from home for work went up for him but down for me. Vibrators were getting worn out. It didn't get to the point of fighting but he could tell I was getting frustrated. He joked I needed a "pool boy" (we don't have a pool), I said "You're right I do." That's how the conversation started for us. I really didn't have to be "persuaded". He just said he'd be fine with me getting fucked if it was for fun. I said "thanks" then "So how do we go about this?" We got an AFF account and that was it. It just evolved from there.
I would add that there was never any notion in my mind that Greg wanted me to pursue any of this to make him happy. While it took the pressure off of him and I always have considered him somewhat when I make my choices. I like to try to make it at least a bit of fun for him when he's around. He just wants me to enjoy sex to the maximum because he loves me. When you guys ask it usually seems it is about you more than her, if she has that impression good luck. She may think you are trying to open a door for yourself to have other women and become insecure in your love for her. I am not a relationship expert just a horny woman.
Kate
I was the one raised the issue about our declining frequency of sex. Plus Greg developed some ED issues in his mid 30s. The pills made it work but performance anxiety and cumming too fast had set in. On top of that the amount of hours away from home for work went up for him but down for me. Vibrators were getting worn out. It didn't get to the point of fighting but he could tell I was getting frustrated. He joked I needed a "pool boy" (we don't have a pool), I said "You're right I do." That's how the conversation started for us. I really didn't have to be "persuaded". He just said he'd be fine with me getting fucked if it was for fun. I said "thanks" then "So how do we go about this?" We got an AFF account and that was it. It just evolved from there.
I would add that there was never any notion in my mind that Greg wanted me to pursue any of this to make him happy. While it took the pressure off of him and I always have considered him somewhat when I make my choices. I like to try to make it at least a bit of fun for him when he's around. He just wants me to enjoy sex to the maximum because he loves me. When you guys ask it usually seems it is about you more than her, if she has that impression good luck. She may think you are trying to open a door for yourself to have other women and become insecure in your love for her. I am not a relationship expert just a horny woman.
Kate
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