Real People of XHamster by SassyBri ~
Interview Questions for Women and Men
Question and Answer Section.
I am excited to introduce this Blog to my page.
I continue to get suggestions for this blog and through several friends input, I have come to the conclusion that this is not only about the Real Women of XHamster... It's about the people as a whole. The community... Evaluating the responses so far indicates that I must change the name to reflect us all. So here we go. The Real People of XHamster it is... for now. Lol.
Another friend shared with me, during the construction of this initial blog, how irrelevant the particular gender is... as well as unimportant in establishing a renewed sense of community, which was my goal in creating this blog. That I should consider changing the name of the title to be less inclusive. Hmmm. I am grateful for his advice and will think on a more appropriate title.
Something struck a cord in me when he said this, "don't ask what's the favorite colour,
ask what they think to be the favotites colours of the others and you will discover a rainbow of wishes, desires so beautiful as just a rainbow knows to be and even an assassin turn his head to
look at a rainbow."
How wonderfully descriptive is that?
I continue to take suggestions and will consider all that is offered. This is a community project. And with that in mind...
Feel at home to answer the following questions as openly or discreetly as you are comfortable with. Skip the question if you would rather not answer. Please keep in mind that we are all a community here. This series of interviews is an attempt to broaden and better understand that community as a whole. It is not intended as a cold questionnaire or survey. My goal is to emphasize the feminine side of xHam. Delving into the innate differences and celebrating what we as female members bring to the table apart from the stereotypical masculine point of view that we are all used to. My male counterparts, your input is just as important, so please participate.
1)Q- Name, Screen and real, if you'd like to share this?
A-
2)Q- Location?
A-
3)Q- Age?
A-
4)Q- Gender?
A-
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A-
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A-
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A-
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A-
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A-
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A-
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A-
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A-
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A-
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A-
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A-
Additional information or comments?
A-
P.S. SUGGESTED QUESTION by one of the readers;
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A-
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A-
Thank you for taking the time to participate in my interview. I may have more questions for you at a later time if you're open to that. Also I am wanting to post a profile picture of your choosing to go with the interview. You may want to remain anonymous. For those who would like to be a part of this project and wish to remain private, please feel free to PM me with the answers you wish to share and I will include them in my Anonymous Category.
I'm looking forward to seeing how this all pulls together. Be on the watch for a personal invitation or just copy and paste the questions and add your answers below or to my PM's, or my page.
My sincerest thanks,
SassyBri ~[/i]
I'd like to add this link as it is relevant to what we've been talking about. As well as a good blog. If you have any suggestions on blogs you'd like to add to this list please PM me or just post it here and I will check it out and possibly add to list. Thanks, y'all.
http://xhamster.com/user/kellykins2u/posts/154440.html by kellykins2u.
http://xhamster.com/user/rodent1/posts/219410.html by Rodent1
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We have the lovely Leslee from Golden, Colorada USA
http://xhamster.com/user/Leaflee
She enjoys Art, Music, Bicycling, Dancing when she's not working in
Psychiatric Counseling, and at Cooking school for c***dren.
Her favorite color is Turquoise blue.
She feels a woman's place here at XHamster is "As equals to be respected for our love of porn and sexual expression".
Leslee tells us her story as to how she came to be a Member here at XHamster.
" I was playing Dirty word Scrabble with a friend at a game site. This friend said that he thought I would enjoy Xhamster. Initially, I just went to XHamster to view videos, then, decided that meeting friends here, worldwide, would be fun! So I designed a profile."
Leslee's most provocative images on here are those she'd rather not see,
" I am pretty easy going and realize some people are proud of their packages and want to share, but, truly, cock pictures as avatars aren't necessary to attract my attention."
On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
"Way too much! Haha! Probably 2 to 3 hours per day during the week."
How is it you spend the majority of your time here? "Mostly chatting in PM’s either general socializing or dirty chit chat, reading stories, reading other people’s profiles and watching videos."
What is it that you would like to see more of here? Leslee explains, "Many of us would like for a forum or area where if we would all like the chat as a group of like minded people we could."
What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
"Less promotion of personal websites and professional videos. Better screening for potential fakes and scammers, if that is possible."
What additional information would you like to see here on the Real Peaople of XHamster?"
I would like to see some way that real people are “certified” as real without having to display our faces in our profiles. Due to professional reasons, I cannot show my face here, but, I would like the accreditation as a real XHamster woman!"
Any additional information or comments you'd like to add?
"Very good questions, Bri! Hope my information is helpful. If you have questions about my answers, please do not hesitate to ask."
Question and Answer Section.
I am excited to introduce this Blog to my page.
I continue to get suggestions for this blog and through several friends input, I have come to the conclusion that this is not only about the Real Women of XHamster... It's about the people as a whole. The community... Evaluating the responses so far indicates that I must change the name to reflect us all. So here we go. The Real People of XHamster it is... for now. Lol.
Another friend shared with me, during the construction of this initial blog, how irrelevant the particular gender is... as well as unimportant in establishing a renewed sense of community, which was my goal in creating this blog. That I should consider changing the name of the title to be less inclusive. Hmmm. I am grateful for his advice and will think on a more appropriate title.
Something struck a cord in me when he said this, "don't ask what's the favorite colour,
ask what they think to be the favotites colours of the others and you will discover a rainbow of wishes, desires so beautiful as just a rainbow knows to be and even an assassin turn his head to
look at a rainbow."
How wonderfully descriptive is that?
I continue to take suggestions and will consider all that is offered. This is a community project. And with that in mind...
Feel at home to answer the following questions as openly or discreetly as you are comfortable with. Skip the question if you would rather not answer. Please keep in mind that we are all a community here. This series of interviews is an attempt to broaden and better understand that community as a whole. It is not intended as a cold questionnaire or survey. My goal is to emphasize the feminine side of xHam. Delving into the innate differences and celebrating what we as female members bring to the table apart from the stereotypical masculine point of view that we are all used to. My male counterparts, your input is just as important, so please participate.
1)Q- Name, Screen and real, if you'd like to share this?
A-
2)Q- Location?
A-
3)Q- Age?
A-
4)Q- Gender?
A-
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A-
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A-
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A-
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A-
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A-
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A-
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A-
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A-
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A-
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A-
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A-
Additional information or comments?
A-
P.S. SUGGESTED QUESTION by one of the readers;
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A-
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A-
Thank you for taking the time to participate in my interview. I may have more questions for you at a later time if you're open to that. Also I am wanting to post a profile picture of your choosing to go with the interview. You may want to remain anonymous. For those who would like to be a part of this project and wish to remain private, please feel free to PM me with the answers you wish to share and I will include them in my Anonymous Category.
I'm looking forward to seeing how this all pulls together. Be on the watch for a personal invitation or just copy and paste the questions and add your answers below or to my PM's, or my page.
My sincerest thanks,
SassyBri ~[/i]
I'd like to add this link as it is relevant to what we've been talking about. As well as a good blog. If you have any suggestions on blogs you'd like to add to this list please PM me or just post it here and I will check it out and possibly add to list. Thanks, y'all.
http://xhamster.com/user/kellykins2u/posts/154440.html by kellykins2u.
http://xhamster.com/user/rodent1/posts/219410.html by Rodent1
已删除
We have the lovely Leslee from Golden, Colorada USA
http://xhamster.com/user/Leaflee
She enjoys Art, Music, Bicycling, Dancing when she's not working in
Psychiatric Counseling, and at Cooking school for c***dren.
Her favorite color is Turquoise blue.
She feels a woman's place here at XHamster is "As equals to be respected for our love of porn and sexual expression".
Leslee tells us her story as to how she came to be a Member here at XHamster.
" I was playing Dirty word Scrabble with a friend at a game site. This friend said that he thought I would enjoy Xhamster. Initially, I just went to XHamster to view videos, then, decided that meeting friends here, worldwide, would be fun! So I designed a profile."
Leslee's most provocative images on here are those she'd rather not see,
" I am pretty easy going and realize some people are proud of their packages and want to share, but, truly, cock pictures as avatars aren't necessary to attract my attention."
On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
"Way too much! Haha! Probably 2 to 3 hours per day during the week."
How is it you spend the majority of your time here? "Mostly chatting in PM’s either general socializing or dirty chit chat, reading stories, reading other people’s profiles and watching videos."
What is it that you would like to see more of here? Leslee explains, "Many of us would like for a forum or area where if we would all like the chat as a group of like minded people we could."
What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
"Less promotion of personal websites and professional videos. Better screening for potential fakes and scammers, if that is possible."
What additional information would you like to see here on the Real Peaople of XHamster?"
I would like to see some way that real people are “certified” as real without having to display our faces in our profiles. Due to professional reasons, I cannot show my face here, but, I would like the accreditation as a real XHamster woman!"
Any additional information or comments you'd like to add?
"Very good questions, Bri! Hope my information is helpful. If you have questions about my answers, please do not hesitate to ask."
11 年 前
A- Thomas - Tributedemon
2)Q- Location?
A- Dark side of the moon or Uk
3)Q- Age?
A- 28
4)Q- Gender?
A- Male
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A- Green or Black
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A- Work in retail so no I don't like or enjoy it. Having to deal with all the idiots that walk through the door and ask stupid questions.
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A- Photography, Music, a couple of sports (and jerking off =P).
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A- The more the better but that isn't going to happen with all the arseholes on here who will harass them endlessly.
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A- I've been cumin to this website a lot over the years and I've got fed up with about ten billion bookmarks. So decided to make an account to save favourite videos and pics, and because I jerk off too much I decided to tributes instead of cuming into a sock all the time. But doing tributes has helped cut down the number of times I jerk off. I'm pathetic I know.
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A- It depends on what mood I'm in. I like lots of things but the main ones are, pics of women like Gianna who have big tits, ass and have curves. I like women who have curves. Hentai because again the women are not all size zero. But if I find the image a turn on the I'll like it. There's not much I don't like.
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A- Too much maybe 2-4 hours a day.
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A- Looking porn videos, but mostly looking at images of pornstars, celebs to tribute and the occasional female user (who aren't fake I do check).
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A- Geniune female users to talk to. Only because women wouldn't talk to me irl.
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A- Fake profiles, arsehole male users and racism (and other stuff like that).
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A- Maybe having something like this to filter out the time wasters and prove the genuine users.
Additional information or comments?
A- No not at the moment. =D
Thanks for taking part in the interview survey.
SassyBri ~
Loved the answers to your interview. It's the first time I believe that I've gotten a couples perspective.
Live long and love furiously!
SassyBri ~
SassyBri ~
A specific shade of dark green known as British Racing Green is my favorite. Obviously that ties into my passion for motorsport.
I did enjoy your answers to the interview questions. I find it fascinating feedback from the REAL world. I love that your favorite color is dark green.
You are lucky, most people don't seem to enjoy their jobs.
Right about the spammers, trolls and flakes.
EYES. Yes. It's all there. The passion, the lust, and the pure raw sexual fulfillment.
I spend way too much time here as well.
It makes me sad that the wife has checked out of the kink. Sometimes with real-life bullshit you need some extra kink in your life. That's how we get it done!
You are an intriguing "decent guy". We'll see.
SassyBri ~
SassyBri ~
A- DarquePervert
There's a story behind it. If you know the story, then you likely know my real name.
2)Q- Location?
A- Eastern Texas
3)Q- Age?
A- 46
4)Q- Gender?
A- Male
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A- Dark Green
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A- I'm in IT with a specific niche. What I enjoy about it is when I'm able to show a customer something and they have that "A-HA" moment. It means I've done my job well.
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A- Motorsports.
History, specifically the history of cultures and their evolution.
I volunteer with organizations that advocate marijuana legalization, for both medicinal and recreational use.
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A- Wherever she damn well feels like.
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A- I was searching for some free porn videos and stumbled across here for some.
I liked the idea of establishing favorites that I could come back and revisit. Eventually, I started chatting w/ some of the real people here (and, unfortunately, some of the spammers, trolls and flakes).
Real people with real brains FTW!
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A- I'm going to assume you mean sexually provoking.
It's eyes and facial expressions. So much can be said about the mental state of a person with just their eyes. When a woman (cis or otherwise) has a look of pure, unabashed lust or pleasore on their face, you can tell it's genuine by their eyes.
Sure, a porn actress can fake a good orgasm for a camera, but if it's not in their eyes, you know it's faked...
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A- Way too much!
Seriously, a few hours a day. It's where I come for my morning stroke.
Many times I'll leave an XH window open and do other stuff, so it looks like I'm online, but I'm not really paying attention.
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A- Looking at porn. LOL
I enjoy looking at the top videos, especially amateur ones.
That and seeing who has posted new content in my news feed.
I'm getting more and more comfortable commenting on photos, videos and such.
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A- I want to see amateur camming return.
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A- Stupidity. Then again, I'd like to see less stupidity everywhere.
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A- Despite my ominous-sounding screen name, I'm really a decent guy.
Additional information or comments?
A-
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A- My favorite would have to be playing a Dominant role in a small group scene, having lust-crazed submissives at my beck and call... The power rush is pretty fucking amazing.
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A- This is the long one....
Mostly, I enjoy long, solo stroke sessions. I have a wife, and our bedroom romps, while enjoyable, are pretty vanilla anymore. Her previous inclinations for kink have been buried under layer upon layer of real-life bullshit.
So I jerk off and fantasize a lot.
A great part of my pleasure when in bed with a woman is to enjoy her expressions.
It is so important for me that,regrettably, even in swinger situations, I never dared to stare at a woman's face because I thought it very invasive. So, I spy on her. Only after two years of daily XRMXX I look at my wife's pussy when eating it. I know that mine is a silly attitude, but can't help it.
Wow! What a story! Even though our interests may be different, I like how you are a sexually open woman with what it takes to put it out there. That's awesome. One question. Why did you choose to keep your profile closed? I mean it looks like you would get more of what you're looking for that way... Did you simply get too much trash? I'm just curious... I'd love to see some of your vids. Go ahead and send that request... We can always see how it goes... And I several very sexy black men as friends. One in particular that has his own "studio" of filming equipment that I'm certain, well, confident in that he could at least help hook you up to what you're searching for. Feel free to PM me anytime.
Thank you for your valuable insight. And the intriguing look into your world...
I enjoyed it very much, and I know others will as well.
SassyBri ~
I did not know you filled this out! How did I miss that? You are one of the sexiest men I know. Absolutely delicious! I also wasn't aware that you traveled so much... That gets me thinking. Why haven't you came to see me. Not into threesomes? Lol. I love the answers here. They are raw, sensual, and makes me want more! Thank you for that! And oooooh how I want to know that fav sexual pass time of yours... I expect a PM SOON detailing every luscious moment. How about a blog on this mmmm topic?
Much lust,
SassyBri ~
A- Hotlori2000. My real name is Lori
2)Q- Location?
A- Boston area
3)Q- Age?
A- 50+
4)Q- Gender?
A- Female
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A- Blue
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A- I like to teach
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A- I don't really have many hobbies. Taking care of my family?
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A- The center around which the wheel revolves.
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A- My husband was interested in making video, and I discovered that I liked to be in them. So we set up an account together. After a while, I wanted an account of my own, so we canceled that one and created a new one. I set up a Clips4Sale site and linked it and started posting video. But it was getting a lot of sales and I decided I did not want to have to claim being a porn actress on my taxes so I canceled that. This is my third account here. Pure amateur, I no longer sell anything (although I do put my profile name as a watermark on everything as I have had video "borrowed" from here and posted by others as if it was them).
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A- I am into black men. In groups. Well hung, in shape black men. I am also into exhibitionism and flashing (women, not men). I am also into cartoons. I would love to see some cartoons made of my videos of me some day.
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A- Not a lot. I use this site to meet people for real meetings, so I typical check in every few days for a short time in the morning, or the late evening.
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A- Searching for well hung in shape black men to meet and play with. It is more difficult than it sounds because lots think they want to do it, but chicken out at the last minute. And lots are camera shy, and that does not work with me. Plus I like groups, and that can also prove difficult for some people.
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A- More real people!
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A- Less fakes!
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A- I like the idea of what you are doing, but I just wish it was "official". But then again, I am into real meetings and I am sure that most people are not here for that!!!
Additional information or comments?
A- I want to say thank you for being real and for being curious
P.S. SUGGESTED QUESTION by one of the readers;
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A- I enjoy being the center of attention from a group of well hung black men.
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A- Thinking about gang bangs, but only occasionally doing one - they are so hard to plan and put together. I have had a couple of epic ones with the Florida Mandingos and Art Hammer, and some good ones with the old All Black Gangbangs of New England group.
A-leatherman and michael
2)Q- Location?michigan but travel everywhere
A-
3)Q- Age?36 november 1st
A-
4)Q- Gender?
A-male
5)Q- Favorite Color?blue purle and green
A-
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A-tattooing working with leather .and working with my hands and cooking
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?crafting ,painting and working with my hands
A-
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A-its intertainment its only as real as you make it .HAVE FUN
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)as for me i had 3 reason to join this 1 i am a tattooist,so i thought it would be a good way to network sence i travel everywhere.2 its a site where the adult part of the person can open that box and share that...isnt that why were all here ..its ok .. and 3 i guess its the singel life you know .and as much as i travel.who knows who i may meet and where it gos .i cant controle whats gonna happend tomarrow.
A-
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A-thats really to answer that because i am not like most men .i loook at the passion the expression.it has feeling such as lips omg i have a weakness for it and like tounges idk why it is what it is so its always differnt .and the eyes mmm you can see a whole nether world with passion.plesure .fantacey just buy looking into a smiling set of eyes .so if you loomat me a certaing way oh yea im weak
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A-not a whole lot because i am always crafting somthing or tattooing .but i do get on at lesst twice a day to see if there are any messadges or so on
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A- looking at vidios .thinking of blogs stories to write or just good ole converstaions
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A-to be honest .i like to see people being treated better like i said on my about me .yes men who read this it is a woman world .treat her much better .not like a dog or talk to her as one .make her smile in same way or a nether .to many negitivest on here i wanna see more possitives
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A-immaturtly were all adults on here so i would hope so .so act like one
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A-i like to see somthing like this .what i just filled out .i beleave it helps people get to know each other
Additional information or comments?
A-i like to see people open there minds more
P.S. SUGGESTED QUESTION by one of the readers;
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A-shhhh i will only tell you winks
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A-play .vidios or somthing creatives
SassyBri ~
A- laurrrenx, Lauren
2)Q- Location?
A- Texas
3)Q- Age?
A- 23
4)Q- Gender?
A- Female
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A- love 'em all!
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A- Administration office
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A- outdoors, reading, writing, swimming, psychology, volunteering
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A- I feel that women should be respected here, as should everyone else. I believe women stand out here because the site is full of men and fake female profiles, so it makes sense that women are bound to get a lot of attention. However, it doesn’t have to be in an obscene manner.
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A- I was browsing here, several years ago, and decided it would be interesting to make a profile. I have always been a very open person (both sexually and not), although I didn't begin to engage in sexual activities until I was 21. I figured making a profile here would be a good way to express myself without actually going out and doing things with random people.
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A- I love seeing balls, something about them are really amazing to me. I also love penises that have piercings, those are scarce, but I love it. Another thing I love to see are images of peoples' faces... Seeing someone's eyes/smile, etc. is much more intimate than just seeing their naughty bits.
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A- A lot... ha. several hours a day, I'm sure.
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A- I personally enjoy looking at pictures more than videos, unless I'm actively trying to get off. But i do a LOT of conversing and commenting, reading blogs, etc. I thoroughly enjoy getting to know people, knowing them for more than just what turns them on... It's wonderful meeting people here and connecting over something totally non sex related. But it's also nice learning of similarities in sexual desires, as well.
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A- Respectful men... I have met a few who are great, but the majority who message me are just interested in getting on cam. I understand that it's a porn site and that camming is a "normal" way for a man to satisfy himself, but most of us females aren’t really into that.
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A- Fake profiles, obnoxious men. I am VERY appreciative of the men (and women) I have met who are intelligent and genuine.
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A- can’t think of anything - you’ve done a great job!
Additional information or comments?
A-
P.S. SUGGESTED QUESTION by one of the readers;
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A- i love being fingered for some reason
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A- use one of my several toys from my collection
My long answer about the category has different "goals".
Just I censored myself as Tia censored herself on her profile, there is a behind the lines
in the words of Tia :
"If I'm sending blowjobs videos, it doesn't mean I like to be covered of...cream!"
The results of the absence of a clear about me on the profiles is the reason of
an unbelievable numbers of misunderstanding on this site.
Example :
A french female member received several comments with offenses so the other members
and reviewers wrote on her profile replies against the "fools"(me included).
What a misunderstanding!
The words were not offenses but a common way to describe the kind of woman she was
showing on her profile in the french language and on the covers of a lot of french porn videos.
The french woman and the other members(me included) didn't know the "code" of the category.
At the same time the woman was using the same concept with a man but in english.
Cause the differences of the languages what in english is cute in french seems bad,
but the meaning is the same, especially if you know the category code.
So a category has more in itself than we can thought.
The risk :
Too many women on this site are showing something they're not.
Example, my polite way :
Me :"Do you know what are you showing?"
woman :"Yes, I like it!"
Me :"Are you sure about that?"
Woman :"Oh, yes, it's a wonderful image!"
Me :"How many times you made it?"
Woman :"What?...Oh, no!..it's there just for fun...I'll never do such things!"
Me :"Perhaps is better if you write something about your real tastes and what
you consider just a funny practice but you don't need to realize."
I wrote "my polite way" because other males on this site have other habits.
I was joking about my "Porn King" rank but I have a little experience about
porn and I'm still learning it, the most important matter is the "codes" of
porn, the "languages" of the categories, surely you seen the word "chicks",
so I ask you :
What the difference from a "chick" and a "fresh meat"?
The age.
A chick is a teen, a "fresh meat" is an universitary student(twenty or older).
You have to front it, as the difference of a MILF and a MOM, MOM is really MOM!
This last example is so hard to push the producers to use "step mothers" and it's
hard enough to understand the next "step" is "step daughters"!
We can't manage all the "codes", as we can't manage the codes of the woodmakers,
engineers, barmen or any kind of workers even if they are talking our same language.
So a female member of xham is too often in a dangerous situation just for a matter
of "ignorance", she ignores the world she's "surfing" as a lot of us.
Final answer :
Why the sites are not showing the categories on the profiles?
Because the bad people has to feel free and when they make a mistake the police knows what to do.
Unpleasant truth but we can try to mantain distances from this people.
So I write again :
Before to write who you are, write WHAT you are.
I am honored you found within you to answer the blog questions. I know how very cautious you are to do this. So thank you.
Most intriguing, insightful, and always brilliant.
I especially liked how you brought to light the lack of a category in which describes your viewing as a reflection of your inner personality, and what a shame it is that more people do not upload in this very personal mirror image of who they are instead of only what they like. That would make for an extremely intimate viewing experience as well as an exploration into our real sexual selves.
I like it. Though there is a danger in potentially revealing a little more than what we'd want to show others, as everyone's idea of fantasy differs. Fascinating thought though. Thank you for sharing it.
Always,
SassyBri ~
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Name, Screen and real, if you'd like to share this?
I'm doing it, Ryk but I prefer hk, 55 was missed immediatly.Community's habit :"Hey hk!"
Location?
Florence, you're free to choose the state.
Age?
55 asap.
Gender?
Male and I feel it, despite it was not a personal choice about 54 years ago.
Favorite Color?
Colours, black and white just for Charlie Chaplin or some such.
What do you enjoy for work?
Enjoy...a...work??!!!
I enjoy holidays!(perhaps I discussed this point before)
What hobbies are you interested in?
When a neighbour use his drill at 7.00 a.m. on sunday morning.
Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
Gifts box?
How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer.
Love, sadly, it was love.
What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
Eyes, the mirror of the soul, men don't say it's not important or Anita Blonde was not the
best star of porn, a lot of actresses are better than her, but...she's a "voyeur", like you.
On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
Too much.
How is it you spend the majority of your time here?
Answering to PMs and comments, often about tech problems, several kind of issues, not just
the xham bugs.
What is it that you would like to see more of here?
Italian women with a good percentage of comments.
My deleted contents(of course, or it was curse?!)
What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
Social networks stolen pictures.
What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
Categories, this is not a problem of this post but a problem of the adult sites.
First :
Are you what you're showing in the uploads and favorites or just you enjoy
to look at them but you will never be in the same situation?
I try with an example, a woman called Tia was clear since her first day on xham :
"I'm posting blowjobs but I'm not so "closed", "stopped" just on this practice."
She was honest, she made a choice just for the pleasure of the community and because
she was able to do good uploads.
Second :
The weight of some categories is not the same of the "common etero".
So the choice of Tia has a bad result also about the real degree of her work among us.
Third :
You will never see on an adult site profile, the 3 main categories of a member as the MOST
important aspect of his/her inner personality.
What a shame to be shamed of themselves!
I like long legged women and their feet in stockings in a soft bondage restraint.
After 1300 days I don't have a good friend on this site about these tastes.
Someone able to write a little bit more than "I like your pics".
From my point of view, it's a world wide shame and a totally failure of the educatioal system
about the shape of the human minds.
Second Millenium and we are just beasts or just the power prefer to have beasts instead humans.
And trolls are here just to help this system, beasts among other beasts, with the shame of... themselves.
It's a dangerous matter, because it has an "extreme" ratio,
just I learned a discipline into my categories and without this discipline, I was doomed.
The first chapter of the discipline is :
Respect, for yourself before than for the others, a very hard lesson.
So, before to write who you are, be brave and write what you are!
Additional information or comments?
Porn King, they said it!
What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
Past time, pass time, passed the time.
What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually?
Mmmmh...
What do you sexually do to pass your time actually?
I'm answering to a questionnaire.
Free added :
What do you like of the real people of xham?
Fantasies.
Forgive my bad grammar.
16)Q- What is YOUR favorite sexual pass time?
A- Group sex.
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A- Making love to my wife, moving a little on my chair when seeing some photos or videos, touching me a little when chatting (once a month).
A-When I am alone, I love to get out my 4 favorite toys to pleasure myself with!
17)Q- What do you actually DO to pass your time away sexually? (Please be explicit)
A-I insert 1 Magic Bullet deeply into my pussy so it is near me G spot. Then I place my 2 Jimmie Jane vibes on my nipples. I turn on my Hitachi wand and go to orgasm heaven!!! Feels awesome every time!!!
2. Massachusetts
3. 39
4. Male
5. Green
6. Law Enforcement
7. Fishing, being outside, spending time with family and friends
8. I think a woman should be on the forefront of xhamster and so glad to see so womnan woman confident and strong to share themselves with the community. Wish we had a jerk button on here to kick them out for good and this be a website of beauty and support.
9. I found xhamster by search best free porn websites.
10. Most provoking images? Look at my favorites
11. I spend way to much time on here. Probably 1-2hrs daily, depending on users recent uploads.
12. I spend my time looking at recent uploads of my subscriptions, chatting with friends (wish I had more), finding new people in my area and trying to connect with them. Looking over new videos hopefully adding new subscriptions to my ever growing list. The teasing myself to several videos before having an orgasm.
14. I would like to see less nay sayers. I believe we should be supportive of the people who post themselves.
15. Additional info?? good question I will have to think about that
16. Favorite sexual pass time is to have a friendly chat with a woman or couple before it turns erotic (again wish I had more of it) and knowing that I am turning her on as much as she is turning me on.
17. I sit in my living room chair, with my laptop on my lap, tv on mute. I sure the most recent uploads adding a tab to each video I like so I have 15-20 videos ready to be watched. I tease myself a little bit by rubbing the tip of my cock through my shorts, edging myself once or twice. When I am ready I grab some paper towels, go to my living room couch, lay down and put the lap top on a stool beside me. I then watch each video I uploaded, constantly bring myself to the edge of cumming. When I get to the last video my cock is throbbing, I pull down my shorts, stroking my cock, lift up my shirt and cum all over my stomach and sometimes it is so intense my load is short over my shoulder.
Hope you enjoy my entry.
I was thoroughly thrilled with your survey submission. It is very original and genuinely entertaining. It definitely leaves us wanting to know you a little better. So... Sweet thang.. what exactly do we do about that? How about this;
If any of my reader's would like to chat with my anonymous submitter's, feel free to PM me and I will be happy to serve as a go-between until the parties are comfortable enough to introduce themselves.
After all, that's what friends do for each other...
SassyBri ~
I thought the best way to introduce myself might be with your survey. At the risk of inundating you with info, here are my answers.
1)Q- Name, Screen and real, if you'd like to share this?
A-Anonymous
2)Q- Location?
A-__ __ Texas… :^). I’ve lived lots of places: De, NJ, Europe, NJ, La, Tx, La, and now Tx until the retirement home claims me!
3)Q- Age?
A-Too old sometimes, not mature/old enough other times; 55.
4)Q- Gender?
A-Last I checked, and it’s at least daily -- wink-wink, snicker-snicker --Male.
5)Q- Favorite Color?
A-Blue. Yes, I like to wear blue and it matches my eyes but I think the real reason is it reminds me of a perfect day, an azure sky meeting the clear aquamarine waters at the horizon on a Carib afternoon.
6)Q- What do you enjoy for work?
A-Unlike many, I used to truly enjoy my professional job. I’m retired now and trying my hand at writing. I love the creative, first draft part but the revising… almost rather stick my hand in a bucket of battery acid some days!
7)Q- What hobbies are you interested in?
A-I thought my lifelong hobby would be woodworking but now it’s writing… I think…
8)Q- Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community?
A-I would have thought, just like anywhere else, a place of equal standing, but at xhamster, there is a greater role. Unfortunately women must bear the brunt of the jerks on this website which then also means they have the greater burden of bringing civilization to the wild schizophrenic-west of this place.
9)Q- How did you come to be here on XHamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that this will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A-I’m a guy, so, well… da porn brung me! But really, a few months ago, I was looking for a break from the interminable revisions I was doing on my first book. (I’m a shitty amateur writer trying his best to improve). I just needed a break. At first it was the porn. Then it was the plethora of “characters” I saw floating around. Now what draws me each day is the desire to talk to real people, mostly women. With some it’s straight conversation, with others it’s mostly sex, and with others there is that delicious saucy line between the two which is so unique, at least to me, at xhamster. So, in summary, da porn and the social networking. I do also like to read the occasional story, the funny blogs, and look at people’s unique galleries.
10)Q- What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A-Oh my… Alright, I’ll be honest and take this to mean video images as well. I have broad tastes so MANY things turn me on but let me try to narrow it down… somehow.
I LOVE watching a woman orgasm. It really turns me on both when I see the rare occasions in vids, and, of course, in person is better. Almost exactly as much I like another specific scene. A guy is screwing a beautiful girl Missionary style. At the last moment, he pulls out and the girl finishes him off, smiling the whole time, by masturbating him onto her belly. I don’t know why, it just does. So, if you ever see that activity in a vid AND she’s somehow miraculously having an orgasm at the same time, PULEASE send it to me!
11)Q- On average, how much time do you spend here at XHamster?
A-Way too much now. I spend hours here while also trying to get some writing done. I’m basically addicted and have to try and find a way to pull back.
12)Q- How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please.)
A-First see above in (9). Then realize, duh, I’m a guy…. No really, I suspect it’s about half whacking and half quacking (talking) and half reading blogs and stories. And yes, I know that adds up to 150%. I told you I spend too much time here!
13)Q- What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A-I’d like to see a more civil, adult community free of trolls and free of serial abusers of women. But, given this is an x-rated site that will naturally attract all sorts of over-hormoned idiots, that’s a pipe-dream. However I believe a couple very simple structural changes to the website could greatly dampen the behavior. (see answer to your last question)
14)Q- What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A-Abusive behavior.
15)Q- What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A-If you mean in your questionnaire… Well, I’m nothing if not for pushing the limits. Add a question that asks how often a person orgasms per week to this list. Now that’s personal.
Additional information or comments?
A-As suggested recently by Juno/Julia, I like to see the profile page changed. Comments posted by people on the profile page should first only be seen by the profile owner. The owner then has the option to delete, answer publically or answer privately. If they choose a private response, then the question and answer would appear in the two people’s “News” section. If they responded publically, the question and answer would appear on the profile page like it does today. Bullies (trolls and serial abusers) get off on the impact they have on people. If they can’t see their work, then the behavior will be dampened.
THANKS FOR HAVING THIS SURVEY. IT PROVIDED AN INTERESTING WAY TO INTRODUCE MYSELF TO YOU.
Submitted Anonymously.
Q1): Name, Screen and real, if you'd like to share this?
A: Nightskies, Richard
Q2): Location?
A: Tampa, Fl, USA
Q3): Age?
A: 28
Q4): Gender?
A: Male
Q5): Favorite Color?
A: Red (darker shades)
Q6): What do you enjoy for work?
A: I am a graduate student pursuing a Ph.D. When I'm not in school or engaged in research I work in technical consulting, mostly failure analysis.
Q7): What hobbies are you interested in?
A: Abstract mathematics and open-source software development, linguistics, photography, medieval swordsmanship, reading both modern and classical literature, traveling, and gourmet cooking.
Q8): Where do you feel a woman's place is in the XHamster Community
A: A Woman's place is whatever she wants it to be. Some women are on here just to collect and watch videos and that's perfectly fine. Others are interested in making friends and social interaction, some only want attention. As I've said elsewhere there are few women on Xhamster comparatively and their presence is a gift.
Q9): How did you come to be here on Xhamster? Tell me your story? (For the men, I expect that his will be a very short answer. Lol. Surprise me!)
A: Well at first, like most men, I came here for the videos. After a while I began to notice that some people had profiles, some of which were rather extensive. At first I decided to create a profile to save favorites but I found a great community of people on here that I began to communicate. Now I spend more time interacting with friends than watching videos.
Q10): What images do you find the most provoking? (Get intimate, I really want to know.)
A: I enjoy images with great sensuality. As funny as that sounds on a website created for sharing porn but its true, all pornography is sexual, but not all is sensual. Outdoor nude photography of women is a favorite of mine, creative scenes and amateur is great too. Of course I enjoy a great spread pussy pictorial as well.
Q11): On average, how much time do you spend here at Xhamster?
A: It varies, sometimes as short as a couple of minutes to update a status or check PMs. It also be a couple of hours if I'm chatting with someone or enjoying porn during sex.
Q12): How is it you spend the majority of your time here? (Details please)
A: I spend approximately 60-75% of my time communicating with people and reading blogs. I have a group of friends that chats frequently which is great because its always interesting and usually entertaining. For the other 40-25% of time I look for new videos or ideas.
Q13): What is it that you would like to see more of here?
A: I wish more people would take the time to write blogs, there is some great content out there and more of it would be a welcome addition.
Q14): What is it you'd like to see less of here on XHamster?
A: Fake profiles, I strongly dislike it when someone puts up a picture and collects friends for a day and logs off. I wish the admins would institute a policy about that. More communication and replying is always welcome as well. Negative or troll behavior should not be tolerated, neither should women receive a bevy of inappropriate comments just because they're women, regardless of their profile content.
Q15): What additional information would you like to see here on the Real People of XHamster?
A: Actually I think this does an excellent job of acting as an introduction as it is. Favorite sexual pass times may be an interesting question.
Additional comments:
Much like you mentioned in the original post, I wish there was a alternate way to be 'verified' as a 'real' member of XHamster. I, like you, cannot show my face on here because of professional reasons but this should not disqualify me from being considered real. Because as my fiends can hopefully attest, I do my best to be real. I try to reply to or communicate with everyone that communicates with me as quickly as possible and I keep my answers genuine. I have many friends that are the same way, most of which are not verified, although they are very real. Thanks for your work on this entry.