Beware: The TROLL

TROLLS are nasty little vermin that can and will infest each and every profile out there. Here are some additional reasons why in particular they enjoy the ripe environment here at XHamster.

These are 10 of my top reasons TROLLS are such an issue:

1) If you are a woman of strength, they will infest your profile in attempt to bully you down.

2) If you are a woman that shows the slightest weakness, they will typically bully you out.

3) If you show dominance in any form they will try and shut you up.

4) If you have a difference in opinion in any form, they will attack you out of sheer jealousy that they didn't think of the idea and put it out there before you did.
UPDATE I felt it important to add this vital addition out of comments by user/resistivecorpse first off, love this blog (and especially its lead photo). im in full agreement with just about everything said here with the exception of the second part of #4. not all people will attack a difference of opinion because they wish they had thought of it first. a lot of them are so close-minded that they cant even open themselves up to the idea of seeing things from that point of view. what they're angry at is the fact that you have a difference of opinion at all. in their minds they're 100% correct on every issue, so for you to show dissent makes you (in their mind) wrong, and thus a target for ridicule. and yet others know you're right but just cant let themselves admit to any flaw, let alone being wrong about something so they troll. they change the subject, they try to get under your skin, to irritate you and provoke you into a response so that the issue is no longer your opinion, its whatever distracting bullshit they decide to go with to take attention away from the original topic.
Thank you RC

5) If you are a high profile user they will stalk you mercilessly in order to gain popularity of the herd of TROLLS that they admire and represent so proudly. Did I say "proudly"?... I meant cowardly. Gives them a sense of power where they have none. Either one. Sense, or power.

6) If you happen to have a friend on your friends list that the TROLL tremors from, you will likely be a victim of one the nastiest variety of TROLL. The one that comes out of no where, and for no apparent reason at all, to do full on battle with you.

7) If you post on Capo's page, G-P, or The Catfight-Club you are an automatic target for these lowly rodents.

8) If you are a newbie and specifically a female newbie, this a****l will latch onto you and literally frighten you away from XHamster so that the creature will not have to deal one more woman profile. This TROLL will attempt to keep you from ever developing your potential here.

9) Be aware of the TROLL that could possibly be your best friend on your friends list and is angry about something you put out there. Maybe you posted a few kind words to their adversary... Maybe you just friend-ed someone they don't like or have had issues with... They become this vicious TROLL in "sheep's clothing". This is by far one of the most dangerous of the species because now they play two roles. One, to build you up as your friend. The other to tear you down as the sneaky TROLL in disguise.

10)The alter-ego TROLL. This creature is a TROLL of his/her own making. Originally an insecure, insignificant coward who rather than facing another user straight up, will stab them in the back at every turn. Comments, posts, or blogs unfounded lies because the truth is just not how they see things. With the altered set of perception this TROLL often imagines, or creates situations and scenarios to where he/she comes out looking like the victim. "Poor me, I'm so misunderstood, everyone blames me..." And someones gonna pay for that. Not caring who that someone is... The need to lash out being so strong, it just does not matter who this TROLL hurts or offends in the process... As long as they are vindicated from their imaginary Woes ME.

Tell me what you think... What have your experiences been? How exactly did it make you feel? And ultimately, what was your decision on how to handle your run in's with the inevitable TROLL?

Thank you always. Love, Light, and Happiness,
SassyBri ~

UPDATE

"I just delete the small little trolls comments block his sorry little ass and never look back they are not worth your time or effort never comment never engage never explain."

Thank you for your responses so far. This last one from NiceSmile50, I've never quite gotten the hang of.

I believe we all have the right to say what's on our mind (all the while wishing it could be done within reason. Not always possible..) and have the opportunity to express ourselves effectively. You know, the whole 'FREE SPEECH' rhetoric. This is why I personally don't delete comments. I like for everybody who visits my profile to know that I'm only human. Yes, I have faults and readily admit most of them. LOL. I know I'm not perfect, nor am I any kind of beautiful wannabe porn star. I do what I do here for my husband, Mark. It turns him on that I am so open sexually. It wasn't always that way... I've come a long way with being confident in how I look, particularly naked. This I do for him. That I happen to do it with a few thousand onlooker's occasionally... Well that's just a kinky bonus. My point is this, I agree the TROLL's are not worth my time or my effort...

Here's where overcoming this challenge is difficult for me. I'M WORTH my time and effort. If that makes any sense. I WILL not... CAN not let the attacks just slide off my back. To not comment back, to never engage.. to not ask for an explanation .. or in turn explain myself what I thought of the insignificant attack .... Well, would be like asking me NOT to breath, to feel, or even have a pulse.

I'm aware of the majority of advice out there being "Don't feed the TROLL's". That's what they get off on. Here again, I'm not a bit concerned about how my responding to their verbal abuse affects THEM. I could give a fuck, but don't. Once you cross that line of civility with me. I cannot help how I act to being outright attacked. And really, it's remains in the back of my mind somewhere, WHY? What did I do to deserve such venom? I'm not one that's into negativity unless it's thrown at my face. Then... Well, I believe it's my right to respond anyway I choose. And I don't back down easily. You remember one of those faults I was talking about earlier? This is one.

Thank y'all for accepting me as I am. Faults and all. LOL.
SassyBri ~

发布者 SassyBri

11 年前

至 SassyBri : You will have to send me a friend invite. My latest troll gallery was actually deleted (a first in this place) so I reloaded and made it friends only to keep it from being flagged.

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至 SassyBri : Most welcome, feel free!

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SassyBri 出版商 9 年前

至 dantheman1980 : Thank you for your feedback and additional information on these repulsive creatures. Very intriguing. I will be checking out your page with earnest enthusiasm. Great work TROLL HUNTER! Thanks for visiting my little corner of the world here... SassyBri ~

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Thanks for this. I love the effort and thought you put into it. You may have read my blogs on trolls or seen my galleries. I collect visuals on troll activity to hand to admin and also so that my viewers know who to avoid like the plague. It's also worth mentioning that these herds or hordes of trolls are very often small cliques with many auxilliary accounts that they go between to protect their main identities and to accuse those they troll of being the trolls when they fight back. If it's not a clique, it's most often just the one acting as himself and then his imaginary friends and you can tell because of the way they talk. It's identical more often than not. You can spot these and ignore them most often by the state of the content on their pages. You know sinister when you see it, right?! They may have only favourites and no content, all of which are voted into the red, which is how they show off their "work" and they will have sinister looking friends. They may be friend collectors, they may be admin groupies, always trying to appeal to the site support in the hopes of appearing misunderstood. There's nothing to be misunderstood though. Feel free to browse my latest gallery and see a couple of twits you should avoid at all costs. http://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/5423807/troll_idiot_box_special.html

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Tender_Heart 10 年前

Amazingly well written Bri. I enjoyed it all. I thought I covered this issue in a couple of my blogs, but they don't even come close to the level I've just read. I've encountered trolls many times on flame boards, and gave them very little thought because the art of the flame was much more interesting. Trolls don't understand that game, it all becomes far to real for them to deal with, and unfortunately their need to live in self loathing hatred that becomes all consuming in their empty little minds, and lives, as it completely saturates them with utter hatred towards other more established posters as it is the unfortunate additions to their abundant life failures. The fact that they cannot turn off their baggage claims is tantamount to their pathetic lives they find themselves hating even more, and more as their needs to lash out at others to make themselves feel better, as you nailed it. As cowards. When they fail so miserably on boards of battle they turn to open sites such as this to lord their inglorious short comings, and failures over unfortunate people that only wish to enjoy themselves as they do in their real lives. Mind to mind they have no game, but to abuse people that have never intentionally said a bad thing towards anyone on sites designed for regular life enjoyments, seems to empower their negativity that much more grotesquely, and just makes a guy like me wanna beat the piss outta them that much more. That great picture you have above has left out a very important aspect of the troll. Their rotted, and shame ridden hearts the size of a gnat, and all a quiver in fear. My skin has become thick enough over the years to laugh, and mock my present stalker here, but my concerns were that for my new friends, and acquaintances, and what my pathetic little menial mental midget intends to do towards them. As he began this mess I shall use him to clean it up. Thanks for this Blog Bri. I'm now able to feel comfort in knowing that there are well minded board veterans here that now make me feel more at home. Jim.

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cambriakid 10 年前

Seems to me that all of us share a general interest or else we wouldn't be on this site. It's supposed to be fun and or exciting and or thought provoking. If it isn't what does that for you, you should keep on searching for that rather than stopping to say what you don't like! I agree totally with RC! Unfortunately, what is fun and or exciting and or thought provoking (well, maybe not thought provoking) is the joy that trolls get from harassing people! I'm glad I have not been the object of their scorn! I have experienced this toxic attitude on Literotica when I tried my hand at writing. I got flamed so hard that I quit trying to write! I realized I let idiots influence my thinking, then I felt even dumber! I think a lot depends on how short your fuse is that day. Someday's it's easier to let things slide, and other days you snap and want to respond in kind. That's when they get you, when you're weakest! So, yeah they're assholes wanting as response! I say starve the bastards out with neglect!

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rebz10 10 年前

I just delete the post and block those trolls. so far there are 2 who post crap in my profile and i deleted the post. didnt reply. replying will just encourage them to annoy you more.

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SassyBri 出版商 10 年前

至 resistivecorpse : I wanted you to know I added your response to #4 of this blog. Very important insight. Thank you RC.

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SassyBri 出版商 10 年前

Right! I dealt with that a lot before making it clear on my profile that there has to be a connection, an actual friendship established before I will accept a friend ship. Some just don't want to take "Not right now." as an answer. But that's a whole 'nuther blog! SassyBri ~

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SassyBri 出版商 10 年前

Thank you. I hope it helped in some way to know you are not alone...

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littlewanker 10 年前

至 tiatempest : Excellent comment, wish they could trace the IRC address and ban these fuckers forever but as you said, it wont happen

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resistivecorpse 10 年前

perhaps i may be the wrong person to post a comment here (god knows ive been called a troll so many times im beginning to think of moving under a bridge a charging people tolls to cross it) but since we're friends and we've been through this before here it goes. first off, love this blog (and especially its lead photo). im in full agreement with just about everything said here with the exception of the second part of #4. not all people will attack a difference of opinion because they wish they had thought of it first. a lot of them are so close-minded that they cant even open themselves up to the idea of seeing things from that point of view. what they're angry at is the fact that you have a difference of opinion at all. in their minds they're 100% correct on every issue, so for you to show dissent makes you (in their mind) wrong, and thus a target for ridicule. and yet others know you're right but just cant let themselves admit to any flaw, let alone being wrong about something so they troll. they change the subject, they try to get under your skin, to irritate you and provoke you into a response so that the issue is no longer your opinion, its whatever distracting bullshit they decide to go with to take attention away from the original topic. im sure ive got more to say but its late and not coming to me at the moment. im sure i'll be back and thanks for this little gem of a post :)

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linmarris 10 年前

did the comment post

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linmarris 10 年前

bri, I'm kind of excited. I got my first serious troll encounter. It was hilarious. His first comment was that I had the most boring page on xhamster. I had to check him out. All he had was a picture of his gut in a kilt holding a purse. He had no profile at all. I couldn't resist mocking him which began the war. I'll never forget it. My good male friends slammed him before I could reply. Then I left him a comment that I was the person he should fear. Since I discussed you in that blog he said I had an infatuation which meant I had lesbian tendencies. I was quick to tell him that I have never been with a woman. If I did it would be a hot sexy bitch like you and he would cut off his leg to watch. My men were cruel. Yet it was my harsh attacks that he will remember. At my peak of meanness I let him know that I'm sure he gets a period each month and his dick leaks blood forcing him to wear a maxi pad under his skirt. Then i read his sex stories which were so funny I almost pissed. Every other sentence was about fucking a woman with a rank nasty pussy that smelled like fish. I told him to admit he attacked women like me for no reason because his dick is too tiny to wrap a whole hand around and he masturbates with two fingers when he can't bang unwashed pussy he pays for. He blocked all the men who attacked him but not me. My friend curvybutt had to tell me he was whacking off to the abuse. I switched tactics with sarcasm and told him how we would get married and I would give him five sons we dressed in skirts. The battle was epic. He mocked me that a very long blog did not get read. He was right. All of his comments about my mental status infuriated me. He nicknamed the men defending me muppets and we adored it. I wrote him a final pm message telling him he was taking time away from my muppets. I hit him with a well kept secret that my muppets sometimes send me cash when I'm broke. They love and support me. In many ways my page is a small private business I am just beginning to grow. I warned him I will go nude in my artwork. I will slam out erotic fantasies and real life stories. My plan may fail but a business has no time for trolls. I know he will be back. He is addicted. I consider it a benchmark of success and not a nuisance. His final comment all he could do was admit that I'm OK and claim I deserve better than my muppets. That is how I beat my first troll. The way men defended me was good. The way i defended myself was better. I let him know his stalking and fixation give me great hope that my business will thrive. He took down his kilt, he deleted his rank pussy stories, he is pretending to be 35, he is from a new country. Dave let me know he changed his status to 'i do mental chicks.' Total victory. Bring on the next troll.

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linmarris 10 年前

i still don't know how the trolls found me. beware of couple trolls with wives who get jealous. Next time I get trolled I'll get more aggressive about the issue

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leatherman77 11 年前

yes trolls is not the way to go ..think of it as an apple rime for a peach

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talonequ 11 年前

After reading Sassy's blog about trolls Too many Hamsters have the wrong goals If they just were considerate And spent more time being literate And less time being stalking assholes

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blus_lvr 11 年前

Yea though I walk.....

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edintx99 11 年前

Wow, you've obviously had your fill of Troll soup in the time you've been here. It's also apparent that you've also managed to build an arsenal of understanding. It's most welcome, interesting to read and should be part of a standard FYI package available to every person that registers on this website. Personally, I've only had one run-in. A direct death threat was leveled at me because I gave advice to a friend who was fighting off a troll. Personally, I think given that xham chooses not to clean-up this issue they should change the structure of the profile page ala what is suggested in Julia/Juno recent blog post. I think that would dampen some of this behavior.

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jonboi18 11 年前

"Trolls are sadd little fuckers with no social skills and friends off there own and to make them fell better about them selve they attach them selve to other like minded reptiles to attack others, that is one of the drawbacks off the internet it give people like the common troll the power and the ainainmity to attack people who they would other wise have no contact with in complete safety" Dr. Jonboi18 Phd esq brain doctor guy to HM THE Queen :)

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sd69lvr 11 年前

Bri, you are an amazing woman. Strong, intelligent, well-read, and not afraid to tackle the toughest issues. I accept you, just as you are, as do the vast majority of people here. Don't ever change. Ever.

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wildhoney 11 年前

Another outstanding blog Bri. I'm sure any troll reading this blog will think you have picked their pea size brain. Great work

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filthywhore 11 年前

i also realize why there are so few real women on the site anymore.

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filthywhore 11 年前

good blog! i seriously don't understand half of the people i encounter on this site. i, for one, love picking fights and talking shit for no reason on every porn site i visit.

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anthony_weston 11 年前

至 tiatempest : While I'm a great fan of your work and like you so much as a person here, I've only put maybe one of your videos as a favorite for reasons of troll-avoidance. I don't want trolls to find you and bother you. It would be great if we could block by IP or block by some kind of host mask as we can in IRC. I blogged a little about Trolls in my Bewilderment of the X Hmaster Male blog but only briefly mentioned it. It's a serious issue and comes in many forms from the simply annoying to the truly offensive and even dangerous. It sounds like you handled it as best as one can given the resources we have here. You have my sympathy and commiseration, Tia.

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anthony_weston 11 年前

You are so impressive, SassyBri. This blog is excellent. I am so sorry you've had trolls bothering you. You've stimulated so many good thoughts and you're doing great things for your friends on so many levels. We're all very fortunate to have you here. I want to read what some of the others have said so far. I'm going to have to give you a big hug for posting this. Trolling is a serious subject and so is cyberbullying. I have to wonder, who has the time for all this silly trolling? I don't have enough time to do the things I have listed for how I'd like to develope my own space here. So, to spend that much time land-sharking around with multiple profiles and in the ways you've identified seems a pretty pathetic thing to be involved with. I'm here because it makes me happy and for the warm, friendly, sexy, community I find does exist here. Great blog. Love the art you included. Thanks for posting your thoughts and to all the others whose comments I read.

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n2oral 11 年前

至 Leaflee : But Leslie, I love trolling for you! And we trolls have ginormous lingams that turn to stone if daylight hits us! Now how about an "afternoon delight"?

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vertuila 11 年前

Even as a kid I felt like there was way too much pressure on the obligations of being a certain gender and having to uphold a huge social scaffolding I never signed onto in the first place. Maybe trolls are the by-product of a paternal desperation to have male offspring live up to mysoginy they failed to bring to fruition themselves. I'm glad of the strong, beautiful, intelligent and outspoken women of xHam, and glad to be reading this blog:-)

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ARES1 11 年前

http://xhamster.com/photos/view/324725-12048103.html

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NiceSmile50 11 年前

I don't have a lot of trouble with trolls being male helps I guess but of the one or two who have become a problem I just delete the small little trolls comments block his sorry little ass and never look back they are not worth your time or effort never comment never engage never explain.

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