How it all began "HEY, GRAMMA!"

A friend was asking me, "so, where did it all start?"

As an adult, it was porn -- written and photographic -- that first thrilled me about SM (broadly). But, as soon as I began to think about things more clearly, I found may way back to those earliest memories. Now I just call it "ECM play." Anyway, there's naturally a lot more to that than these few stills yet this cartoon...

She was my first girlfriend before I even understood what that meant. Sexy, huh? For me, yes. She's self-confident, she's brave, she's not shy, willing to walk alone in the deep forest. I just liked her. Maybe it's the glasses. But, it was what ends up happening to her at the end which cast the die I think. So, yes, I think that was when the first erotic identity "circuits" were wired in me.

"You don't pick this," I told my friend. I think it's the same as how one does not "select" gender preferences or gender identity, either. Those are not items to grab from a shelf at the local Big Box.

Another friend, someone have I felt particularly connected to and have great respect for -- we grew up literally blocks apart -- also cited a cartoon but a different one.

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I'm going to bring a nice fresh rabbit for gramma

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"Oh Gramma! What big teeth you have!"
"All the better to with!!"

And the coup de grâce to a "normal" erotic life:

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"Oh Gramma!"

That's Not All Folks!

Anthony Weston
Valentine's Day, 2014

发布者 anthony_weston

11 年前

roxyb 11 年前

I got yseelf thinking where did it started for me... As you said, it is not something you pick, so, the question is: when did it came to light? In my childhood I wanted to be Dorothy and explore the world of Oz, in many ways I still wanna explore new lands...

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Olive8 11 年前

I saw this same cartoon when I was young, too, Anthony, and found it strangely erotic and provocative. There was also an old Popeye cartoon where Bluto restrained Olive (my namesake hahaha) and devised a 'torture' where suspended milk bottles were dripping their contents over her bound feet as two cats ravenously licked the milk up her soles, from heels to toes, compelling her to dissolve into a rolling fit of continuous, hysterical laughter until Popeye, spinach can in hand, showed up to 'save the day.' I didn't realize it at the time, of course, yet this was likely my first encounter with a bdsm scenario, and, to this day, if I dwell on that scene in my mind, has the ability to get me aroused. Funny, the kinds of strange little things that can become 'formative' to someone, isn't it?

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anthony_weston 出版商 11 年前

至 kittkatt24 : I should write-up a description of the whole thing to it perfectly clear. Glad you liked the page reference.

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kittkatt24 11 年前

It all makes sense. Thank you as well to the link from the lesbian mafia, there articles are very informative.

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anthony_weston 出版商 11 年前

至 kittkatt24 : Well, look again. :-) This is not the "traditional" story.

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kittkatt24 11 年前

Little red riding hood, who would have thought, makes sense though, i never was big into cartoons, as sill as it may sound it think it may have been Barbie for me, some would say Barbie an Ken, but it was Barbie and Barbie for me. Good one Anthony made is think.

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