Confidence is Key
The other day, someone viewing one of my webcam shows was not pleased that I didn't want to read his private messages or go c2c with him in the MIDDLE OF MY SHOW, and he sent me a very rude message, in which he said I was "too full of myself."
I would like to address that, as an actual woman on this site.
Confidence is something that I have worked towards my whole life; it is not something I was born with. I know there are other girls out there that are thinner, have bigger tits, nicer asses, smaller noses, etc. I do not look like the beautiful fairy princess fuck toy you see on cam/in my videos when I first wake up in the morning. I have days that I feel gross, or at the very least not sexy. If I let those feelings be in charge of me, I would NEVER have made a profile here and I would definitely NEVER go on cam.
Plus who wants to watch a cam model that is uncomfortable with his/her body?
But confidence is something that I have learned to allow myself, and I won't lie, your positive comments and feedback help a ton. Consistently having one of the most popular cam rooms, having reached my friend limit, having over 90% thumbs up on almost all my videos- those are all gestures that not only make me feel sexy, they HELP NEGATE THE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT I, AND ALL WOMEN, TELL MYSELF/OURSELVES ON A DAILY BASIS.
So please, I guess the point of this is to say- if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. I could care less about the bad things you think of me, but other people may not be as resilient, and I would hope that the members of this community understand the strong connection between feeling safe, having confidence, and being more adventurous/willing to share.
Peace, love, and can you tell I went to UC Santa Cruz and am still a huge Nor-Cal hippie?
I would like to address that, as an actual woman on this site.
Confidence is something that I have worked towards my whole life; it is not something I was born with. I know there are other girls out there that are thinner, have bigger tits, nicer asses, smaller noses, etc. I do not look like the beautiful fairy princess fuck toy you see on cam/in my videos when I first wake up in the morning. I have days that I feel gross, or at the very least not sexy. If I let those feelings be in charge of me, I would NEVER have made a profile here and I would definitely NEVER go on cam.
Plus who wants to watch a cam model that is uncomfortable with his/her body?
But confidence is something that I have learned to allow myself, and I won't lie, your positive comments and feedback help a ton. Consistently having one of the most popular cam rooms, having reached my friend limit, having over 90% thumbs up on almost all my videos- those are all gestures that not only make me feel sexy, they HELP NEGATE THE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT I, AND ALL WOMEN, TELL MYSELF/OURSELVES ON A DAILY BASIS.
So please, I guess the point of this is to say- if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. I could care less about the bad things you think of me, but other people may not be as resilient, and I would hope that the members of this community understand the strong connection between feeling safe, having confidence, and being more adventurous/willing to share.
Peace, love, and can you tell I went to UC Santa Cruz and am still a huge Nor-Cal hippie?
11 年 前
be confident and self assured. Thank you.
Stay warm today.
Be sexy and happy : )
I live in lakewood if you ever want to chat, maybe hangout : )