How to talk to Camgirls!
I found the link to this on twitter from Cam Girl Services
http://camgirlservices.com/profiles/how-to-talk-to-cam-girls-get-the-most-out-of-your-shows/
Get the most out of your shows!
I’ll try to give you honest and open answers and opinions to the most common hang ups between cam girls and members. I welcome your suggestions comments and feed back.
I would like to let you some of you guys in on how some of us cam girls think. I know it can be confusing when you talk to a girl for the first time, you want to be polite, you want to get to know her before deciding if you want to spend your money on her…
What do you say to get off to a good start?
What should you not you say?
Why do some cam girls seem so ‘bitchy’ ?
Upon first meetings, often times the girl will automatically misjudge a perspective client by assuming he is a ’time waster”.
This is generally due to some of the questions he leads with. And in turn The guys tend to think the cam girl is just a ‘bitch’. Really, I’t’s only a matter of a difference in perception and communication.
For example, when a new cam girl first starts this type of work, they generally make a lot more money because they have not yet been jaded by the 100′s of people per day wasting hours of their time and money. It’s sort of a catch 22 and we are all guilty of it, but try to remember that that it is not personal, show us you mean business and you will have our full attention. That said, to have the most successful connections, both parties should remember to try to see it from others point of view.
Requesting a ‘Preview’ on a main stream site: Again, completely understandable… you want to see a little more of the girl you are thinking of spending on… but when you ask her to stand up, she is snappy or ignores you.. WTF?
OK… to our defense, We get asked to stand up and turn around over and over.. Its frustrating when guys are coming into the room and barking orders such as “Stand up” ”show me your tits” ” If you ____ i’ll go private” This is no way to get any girls attention! It comes off as demanding and or very abrupt wich makes us assume you are disrespectful or rude. Whats more, the guys who act like this rarely spend money and are what we consider ‘time wasters’.
If you come into a room treating a girl like you have no class, or manners, you will most likely be ignored. Instead, compliment us on an our outfit or ask to see more of it..
Give us some time to see if we will stand up and show off, dance and ‘show more’ on our own, a lot of girls will do it randomly every few minutes or so anyway. A little patience can go a long way here…
Independent Cam Girl Previews: most independent girls will not show a free preview, (meaning turn on cam without payment). When we are independent each show is generally personalized and we have to take time to set up our cam equipment and get ready for our show. If a cam girl is constantly doing previews for free she wouldn’t have time for her shows. Thus, it wouldn’t be long before cam girls began to dissipate and move onto something more profitable. However they usually do offer a pre-recorded preview video or still pictures taken with their webcams so you can get a general idea of quality.
Of course no one wants to risk losing their money or being scammed but keep in mind, nearly every single GENUINE independent or freelance web cam girl / model has been verified either by a site that promotes indi girls or a large cam site . If ever you are unsure of a girls authenticity, you should feel free to ask her for links to any of her profiles on sites where she has been verified. She will gladly oblige!
Questions and Small Talk: Alot of guys get short or rude answers when asking what they think is a perfectly normal question. It’s really not your fault, Let me try to explain which questions we hate and why.
You see a girl you like, you want to get to know her.. naturally you ask; where we live, what we like, how old we are, what our name is etc.. thats all a part of getting to know someone.. BUT try to remember that we have been asked all those questions (most of which we consider to be private info) 100′s of times a day either on messenger or in chat and often times most of the answers can be found on our bio. If we are on a large cam site, every client that has been in our room longer than 5 mins has watched us answer the same questions about 30 times. It gets tiring and feels redundant. You will catch her attention much quicker if bypass the small talk and are upfront about what you want. She will no doubt recognize you as someone who is serious about wanting a show, and will be much more willing to engage.
Where are you from?
We don’t want to tell you where we are from, That information is private to us in regards to our safety. Usually the guy just wants to know about time zones in relation to his. The best thing to ask is “what time zone are you in?” It may seem silly, but when you are first getting to know a girl, the more comfortable you make her feel with you, the further you will get in the long run.
Why do cam girls hate small talk, isn’t that part of her job?
No, We are not here to entertain bored people on the internet. Time is money.
Just as lawyers don’t give out free legal advice.. We don’t give out free time. :)
We are busy busy girls when we are on line. We don’t come here to chat out of boredom. We cam when we are horny, and want to do shows, or if we want to save up some extra cash!
In this respect, we aren’t like most girls… Take advantage of the fact that you finally found a girl you can get straight to the point with
We would much rather you message us and say hey… Im looking for ____, or I like ____ and would you be willing to ____?
Chances are she will graciously and quickly respond to that, rather than the stream of mundane hi, how are you, good, where are you from, how old are you, etc etc etc…
Just don’t try it on that hottie down the street… lol
By:
A cam Girl
This post is a Work in progress.. Feel free to add your insight in the comments section below!
http://camgirlservices.com/profiles/how-to-talk-to-cam-girls-get-the-most-out-of-your-shows/
Get the most out of your shows!
I’ll try to give you honest and open answers and opinions to the most common hang ups between cam girls and members. I welcome your suggestions comments and feed back.
I would like to let you some of you guys in on how some of us cam girls think. I know it can be confusing when you talk to a girl for the first time, you want to be polite, you want to get to know her before deciding if you want to spend your money on her…
What do you say to get off to a good start?
What should you not you say?
Why do some cam girls seem so ‘bitchy’ ?
Upon first meetings, often times the girl will automatically misjudge a perspective client by assuming he is a ’time waster”.
This is generally due to some of the questions he leads with. And in turn The guys tend to think the cam girl is just a ‘bitch’. Really, I’t’s only a matter of a difference in perception and communication.
For example, when a new cam girl first starts this type of work, they generally make a lot more money because they have not yet been jaded by the 100′s of people per day wasting hours of their time and money. It’s sort of a catch 22 and we are all guilty of it, but try to remember that that it is not personal, show us you mean business and you will have our full attention. That said, to have the most successful connections, both parties should remember to try to see it from others point of view.
Requesting a ‘Preview’ on a main stream site: Again, completely understandable… you want to see a little more of the girl you are thinking of spending on… but when you ask her to stand up, she is snappy or ignores you.. WTF?
OK… to our defense, We get asked to stand up and turn around over and over.. Its frustrating when guys are coming into the room and barking orders such as “Stand up” ”show me your tits” ” If you ____ i’ll go private” This is no way to get any girls attention! It comes off as demanding and or very abrupt wich makes us assume you are disrespectful or rude. Whats more, the guys who act like this rarely spend money and are what we consider ‘time wasters’.
If you come into a room treating a girl like you have no class, or manners, you will most likely be ignored. Instead, compliment us on an our outfit or ask to see more of it..
Give us some time to see if we will stand up and show off, dance and ‘show more’ on our own, a lot of girls will do it randomly every few minutes or so anyway. A little patience can go a long way here…
Independent Cam Girl Previews: most independent girls will not show a free preview, (meaning turn on cam without payment). When we are independent each show is generally personalized and we have to take time to set up our cam equipment and get ready for our show. If a cam girl is constantly doing previews for free she wouldn’t have time for her shows. Thus, it wouldn’t be long before cam girls began to dissipate and move onto something more profitable. However they usually do offer a pre-recorded preview video or still pictures taken with their webcams so you can get a general idea of quality.
Of course no one wants to risk losing their money or being scammed but keep in mind, nearly every single GENUINE independent or freelance web cam girl / model has been verified either by a site that promotes indi girls or a large cam site . If ever you are unsure of a girls authenticity, you should feel free to ask her for links to any of her profiles on sites where she has been verified. She will gladly oblige!
Questions and Small Talk: Alot of guys get short or rude answers when asking what they think is a perfectly normal question. It’s really not your fault, Let me try to explain which questions we hate and why.
You see a girl you like, you want to get to know her.. naturally you ask; where we live, what we like, how old we are, what our name is etc.. thats all a part of getting to know someone.. BUT try to remember that we have been asked all those questions (most of which we consider to be private info) 100′s of times a day either on messenger or in chat and often times most of the answers can be found on our bio. If we are on a large cam site, every client that has been in our room longer than 5 mins has watched us answer the same questions about 30 times. It gets tiring and feels redundant. You will catch her attention much quicker if bypass the small talk and are upfront about what you want. She will no doubt recognize you as someone who is serious about wanting a show, and will be much more willing to engage.
Where are you from?
We don’t want to tell you where we are from, That information is private to us in regards to our safety. Usually the guy just wants to know about time zones in relation to his. The best thing to ask is “what time zone are you in?” It may seem silly, but when you are first getting to know a girl, the more comfortable you make her feel with you, the further you will get in the long run.
Why do cam girls hate small talk, isn’t that part of her job?
No, We are not here to entertain bored people on the internet. Time is money.
Just as lawyers don’t give out free legal advice.. We don’t give out free time. :)
We are busy busy girls when we are on line. We don’t come here to chat out of boredom. We cam when we are horny, and want to do shows, or if we want to save up some extra cash!
In this respect, we aren’t like most girls… Take advantage of the fact that you finally found a girl you can get straight to the point with
We would much rather you message us and say hey… Im looking for ____, or I like ____ and would you be willing to ____?
Chances are she will graciously and quickly respond to that, rather than the stream of mundane hi, how are you, good, where are you from, how old are you, etc etc etc…
Just don’t try it on that hottie down the street… lol
By:
A cam Girl
This post is a Work in progress.. Feel free to add your insight in the comments section below!
10 年 前
