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Fucking the mind...

Sometimes my fantasies are so vivid that I have been awakened by an orgasm…and then I just have to lay there until the waves pass because my body is paralyzed.

The psychological component to sex is incredibly arousing to me. I suppose that is why the mindfucking aspect of BDSM is so powerful.

From Idaho BDSM:

“During a Mindfucking session the Dominant guides the sub into their own fears, doubts, and weaknesses. The Dominant guides his subject to live their experience - the whole emotion of "losing" him/herself. In this process, the submissive will not just imagine or act but *really become* extremely opened and vulnerable. That is why it is *so* important to have a complete trust in the Dominant before accepting such experience, as well as having a Dominant that knows what he's doing.”

I really crave to be under the control of such a man…where I can lose myself in a sexual experience. Completely vulnerable, lost in the moment, and open to anything and everything that he desires of me.

mas·och·ism
ˈmasəˌkizəm,ˈmazəˌkizəm/
noun
1. the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from one's own pain or humiliation.

I want someone to play with my mind almost more than with my body (but don’t get me wrong…I eventually want that too!) I want the mindfuck, the fear play, the consensual non-consent where no is ignored as we both explore places that are in the shadows of our minds and fantasies. My heart is pounding the hardest when my blackest thoughts are realized by my partner and preyed upon. My blackest thoughts are realized when he feels that he has my soul in his hand. He can see my soul in his hand when he can see his words striking and cutting me in ways that no knife ever could. (adapted from MagisterNodi’s emotional sadist)

I would love to experience a total immersion BDSM, Dom/sub lifestyle. The type of dynamic that is a part of our lives and woven into everything we do. This is also why age play appeals to me…the power exchange is more intense and realistic when my partner is older than me.

I need a more substantial outlet and a partner for all the perverted scenarios in my mind…

发布者 cokokisses

10 年前

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pookalooka 5 年前

Few people truly appreciate the incredible connection and depth of an intimate D/s relationship. I have been fortunate to have known a very sensitive and loving Domme who taught me so much. Personally I am a "switch" and still very inexperienced with it all, but at least I know in my mind what it is all about

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cuckslut 6 年前

It’s what it’s all about, fucking the mind, now isn’t it.

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cokokisses 出版商 7 年前

i'm very curious about this idea of sacred sex. i'll have to explore that...i'd love for you to send me a PM with more details about your experiences...

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bigfella1313 8 年前

I am recently interested in this sort of thing too (well, I guess you were a year ago, recently for me is, well, now). I never understood it before, avoided porn videos where this stuff occurred. It even made me angry to see women "mistreated". But several new "friends" I made here kind of gave me more perspective on it and I have a somewhat more nuanced understanding of this kind of play and I like it. It's something I fantasize about a lot, now and the psychology of it is what appeals, I think. It literally IS mind-fucking, and that is pretty cool, if there's enough trust and skill involved.

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flowknox 9 年前

i've been off and on this site for years and i've never gotten to dive into the blogs and real thoughts of fellow pervs on here; this is beautifully honest and open; it's feeding me clarity. thanks for sharing this; i'm going to read more of your stuff now!

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tony957 10 年前

I'am that dominate LARGE black bull that takes complete control, that detour from everyday life. I punish the mid first and then the mouth ass and cunt, MANY TIMES IN FRONT OF THE HUSBANDS!!

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edintx99 10 年前

I enjoy someone giving themselves over to me unconditionally so I can prolong the pace and crescendo of their orgasm.

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313squirtking 10 年前

This is a great post. People don't under the amount of trust that goes into a relationship

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cckready 10 年前

I like your take on the concept of mind fuck. I too am almost completely overwhelmed with the mental aspects of the sexual encounter. My dominant / submissive fantasies tend to be in the "cheating wife" realm rather than BDSM, but I think the mental aspects are similar. Someone who is dominant over you. Mind fucking you and then causing anguish and pain (mental in the cheating wife scenario, physical in BDSM) before allowing the sub to move to the sexual and then controlling the release.

Nicely put together essay. Interesting thoughts. Definitely makes me think of BDSM in a much different way.

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I think what your looking for is obtainable - it doesn't even necessarily take any experience in bdsm to mindfuck. There are people with naturally dominant personalities, argumentative, always right you know the type. Add age, maturity, social standing.. Intellect and knowledge. you find a person who seemingly holds everything over you - a man like that will own you in the bedroom as well.

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show4fem 10 年前

coko id give u kisses but u know that how have u ben??xxx

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benadam1910 10 年前

sexy mind i would love to be the one who can experience this time with u

n feel this sexy mind works.but pls shear it if happen n u meet the one to do so.love to hear about it ?

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hoople 10 年前

I would give the drill sargant treatment!!!!!

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layne16 10 年前

beautiful thought for a beautiful lady....when I could get the time of day from you...

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cokokisses 出版商 10 年前

至 layne16 : beautiful thought...

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layne16 10 年前

I am ready for a good mind fuck..for someone to unequivocally give me themselves to me just as much as I want for nothing more than to please them, mentally, physically, emotionally to the extent that I surprise her with other cocks, as she shares me with equally mind blowing woman

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