My wife came out and told me Isaac is the one
I know some will read all of this with a bit of skepticism and I understand that, but I just have to share our situation with others who have similar things going on in their marriage. The reason I made a note of that is because my wife had some things to tell me last night while we shared a glass of wine while listening to Depeche' Mode in our living room which led to a lot of other things I'll also reveal. It was her first day off work and about midnight when we were both able to catch up with each other after having a miserable night and early morning with a refrigerator compressor going bad that I spent storing food and running down a capacitor to fix the thing so I would not have to spend a thousand dollars on a new one; I'm not a cheapskate I just like spending money on big boy toys. Between that and the sleep I needed afterwards explains why she could not tell me as soon as she got home from work.
Anyway I digress, it's in my DNA to over-explain things. We were sitting on the couch and she (Helen) said while at work (casino) she saw a "regular" and stopped to talk to him for a second and said you'll never guess what he told me out of the blue. Helen said out of the blue he said he had seen Issac working at The P________ Casino the night before. At first I was literally in "HOLY CRAP" mode then asked how this guy knew Isaac and Helen said she assumes since he's a regular he knows a number of the employees including Isaac before he was terminated. Helen told me she did not talk long to him but did tell him to tell Isaac she said hi if he saw him again. Helen then said, so, if you are ever looking for Isaac you know where to find him now as she laughed at what she said and so did I.
I try not to drone on about the subject of us doing any of this lest she grows weary of it, but since it was her that mentioned Isaac I told her I had been looking on line for him and was not having any luck so it was cool this had happened. Helen said she had a feeling she would locate him before I could and I said I thought Isaac would have showed up at her work to say hi to everyone but perhaps he's still not allowed their until the casino gets past the legal matters involving him and the patron's who were fighting. Like I said I tend not to talk too much about the subject but tonight Helen was on point and was the one who started to delve into how she was starting to think about this a whole lot more so I went with the flow.
Tonight Helen was the most candid I have ever witnessed her on any of this and the tone of her voice with which she talked to me bore a confidence that she sometimes lacks when talking about any of this. Helen took control of the topic, which she never does, and said things really started changing inside of her ever since Isaac's name was mentioned, she did not just say the words but made this little sound people use to let someone know they really have no idea what the person is trying to tell them, but that did not stop her from trying to explain further. Helen told me she thinks about Isaac a lot and gets aroused knowing she can actually sleep with him, she says this all started after Isaac was mentioned because prior to this it did not feel real but having an actual man she knew out there made her realize she could make this happen.
We talked more about finding him and if I should approach him alone and other things but it was just small talk from the much more serious things Helen had to say to me. I said I was glad she felt that way about Isaac and she said she was glad I did because she did not want me to be jealous of how she was feeling about him. I told Helen I had no qualms with how she was feeling and said I was hoping all along she had some type of affection for him. Helen added, once that guy told her about where Isaac was it really struck her how much she would like to see him again and reminded her how much she has been thinking going to bed with him and while we were sitting there she said if Isaac was in the room there would be things happening. Helen was on a roll so I asked her what she meant, she spoke as if she had thought this out and said if Isaac, me and her were sitting in a dark little bar together she would literally go sit beside him and start kissing him. Hearing my wife talk about Isaac so intimately I asked if she had the same ideas on sleeping with him and she said oh yes but that she wanted me in arms reach. Wow is all I can say.
Anyway we concluded the talks and she went to the bedroom as I started to watch tv when she called for me. When I got in the bedroom she said look and handed me her cell phone. I know the following all sounds cliche and like a bunch of stereotypical bullshit but on her phone was a picture of Isaac and I am here to tell you this guy is big. At first I just sort of stared at his picture and then said "good lord Helen he is huge" and she said "I told you" and I countered with "you said he was big but damn, he looks over 6' tall." I mentioned the size of Isaac's arms, hands, and body and said from the looks of it he has to be hung and Helen said "no doubt, he's got to be very big from what I've seen." Helen said it sounded like I was surprised that her description of Issac was true and to be honest Issac was more than I expected, I admitted I was a little stunned at how big he was and in my head realizing why my wife wanted to sleep with him. Isaac is perfect for this and while studying his picture I saw a man who's going to bring things to the bedroom for my wife that I can't, plain and simple, I think that's why I stared at it in silence for awhile because knowing my wife has "feelings" for him and wants him for a lover is frankly a little intimidating but not something I cannot overcome.
I asked how she found him and she said she looked up other employees at the casino on Facebook and found he was friends with one of the people she looked up. She said by the way his name is Isaac ______________, so now you have all you need to find him. For me that's when I had a moment clarity and sheer genius and blurted out "send him a friend request" to which she replied in a emphatic tone no way, lol. I asked why not but quickly said it was up to her realizing I was being pushy, and said that she had a built in excuse to do it because she had just talked to that guy about him and she could be coy initially and say she was just seeing how he was doing. As I was doing this I was scrolling through his friends list and said damn, my wife asked what and I said I was looking at his friends and before I could get the rest out Helen asked rhetorically "what, are there a lot of white girls on it" and I said hell yes.
I handed Helen her phone and mentioned something about maybe trying for August to ask him out and as quickly as I handed her the phone she said look and when I looked at her phone she had sent him a friend request. I am very curious as to how Issac sees an out of the blue friend request from a married white woman even if she has a built in excuse, the other guy wasn't his friend on Facebook so Isaac knows Helen had to go through the trouble of looking him up after all this time AND he probably imagines there is no way in hell she would do this with my knowledge. I imagine he might be able to at least see my wife has an interest in him but never in a million years know it is with her husband's consent.
My only regret is not being able to post his picture here. Wish us luck.
Anyway I digress, it's in my DNA to over-explain things. We were sitting on the couch and she (Helen) said while at work (casino) she saw a "regular" and stopped to talk to him for a second and said you'll never guess what he told me out of the blue. Helen said out of the blue he said he had seen Issac working at The P________ Casino the night before. At first I was literally in "HOLY CRAP" mode then asked how this guy knew Isaac and Helen said she assumes since he's a regular he knows a number of the employees including Isaac before he was terminated. Helen told me she did not talk long to him but did tell him to tell Isaac she said hi if he saw him again. Helen then said, so, if you are ever looking for Isaac you know where to find him now as she laughed at what she said and so did I.
I try not to drone on about the subject of us doing any of this lest she grows weary of it, but since it was her that mentioned Isaac I told her I had been looking on line for him and was not having any luck so it was cool this had happened. Helen said she had a feeling she would locate him before I could and I said I thought Isaac would have showed up at her work to say hi to everyone but perhaps he's still not allowed their until the casino gets past the legal matters involving him and the patron's who were fighting. Like I said I tend not to talk too much about the subject but tonight Helen was on point and was the one who started to delve into how she was starting to think about this a whole lot more so I went with the flow.
Tonight Helen was the most candid I have ever witnessed her on any of this and the tone of her voice with which she talked to me bore a confidence that she sometimes lacks when talking about any of this. Helen took control of the topic, which she never does, and said things really started changing inside of her ever since Isaac's name was mentioned, she did not just say the words but made this little sound people use to let someone know they really have no idea what the person is trying to tell them, but that did not stop her from trying to explain further. Helen told me she thinks about Isaac a lot and gets aroused knowing she can actually sleep with him, she says this all started after Isaac was mentioned because prior to this it did not feel real but having an actual man she knew out there made her realize she could make this happen.
We talked more about finding him and if I should approach him alone and other things but it was just small talk from the much more serious things Helen had to say to me. I said I was glad she felt that way about Isaac and she said she was glad I did because she did not want me to be jealous of how she was feeling about him. I told Helen I had no qualms with how she was feeling and said I was hoping all along she had some type of affection for him. Helen added, once that guy told her about where Isaac was it really struck her how much she would like to see him again and reminded her how much she has been thinking going to bed with him and while we were sitting there she said if Isaac was in the room there would be things happening. Helen was on a roll so I asked her what she meant, she spoke as if she had thought this out and said if Isaac, me and her were sitting in a dark little bar together she would literally go sit beside him and start kissing him. Hearing my wife talk about Isaac so intimately I asked if she had the same ideas on sleeping with him and she said oh yes but that she wanted me in arms reach. Wow is all I can say.
Anyway we concluded the talks and she went to the bedroom as I started to watch tv when she called for me. When I got in the bedroom she said look and handed me her cell phone. I know the following all sounds cliche and like a bunch of stereotypical bullshit but on her phone was a picture of Isaac and I am here to tell you this guy is big. At first I just sort of stared at his picture and then said "good lord Helen he is huge" and she said "I told you" and I countered with "you said he was big but damn, he looks over 6' tall." I mentioned the size of Isaac's arms, hands, and body and said from the looks of it he has to be hung and Helen said "no doubt, he's got to be very big from what I've seen." Helen said it sounded like I was surprised that her description of Issac was true and to be honest Issac was more than I expected, I admitted I was a little stunned at how big he was and in my head realizing why my wife wanted to sleep with him. Isaac is perfect for this and while studying his picture I saw a man who's going to bring things to the bedroom for my wife that I can't, plain and simple, I think that's why I stared at it in silence for awhile because knowing my wife has "feelings" for him and wants him for a lover is frankly a little intimidating but not something I cannot overcome.
I asked how she found him and she said she looked up other employees at the casino on Facebook and found he was friends with one of the people she looked up. She said by the way his name is Isaac ______________, so now you have all you need to find him. For me that's when I had a moment clarity and sheer genius and blurted out "send him a friend request" to which she replied in a emphatic tone no way, lol. I asked why not but quickly said it was up to her realizing I was being pushy, and said that she had a built in excuse to do it because she had just talked to that guy about him and she could be coy initially and say she was just seeing how he was doing. As I was doing this I was scrolling through his friends list and said damn, my wife asked what and I said I was looking at his friends and before I could get the rest out Helen asked rhetorically "what, are there a lot of white girls on it" and I said hell yes.
I handed Helen her phone and mentioned something about maybe trying for August to ask him out and as quickly as I handed her the phone she said look and when I looked at her phone she had sent him a friend request. I am very curious as to how Issac sees an out of the blue friend request from a married white woman even if she has a built in excuse, the other guy wasn't his friend on Facebook so Isaac knows Helen had to go through the trouble of looking him up after all this time AND he probably imagines there is no way in hell she would do this with my knowledge. I imagine he might be able to at least see my wife has an interest in him but never in a million years know it is with her husband's consent.
My only regret is not being able to post his picture here. Wish us luck.
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