Thinking of confessing to wife my love for t-girls

I have been considering for a while now about telling my wife of 24years that I really desire to have sex with a transwoman, particularly performing fellatio on her. I have hidden this from her for years, but I yearn to have my sexuality out in the open with her. I know using porn and actually performing the behavior are completely different, but I have actually done it behind her back and really enjoy it. I feel terrible about it, but she does not have a penis to play with, so she can't help me with this.

Of course I am willing to let her experience sex with another man or woman if she desires. I realize this may hurt her, which I don't want to do, but I am not being true to myself either.

Has anybody confessed something like this to their spouse? How did it go? Any advice on how to do it? Any and all opinions welcome.

发布者 blade136

9 年前

blade136 出版商 6 年前

至 NinaSissyGurl : Lol, I'm sure she has secrets, but probably not that one! She tells me she has no interest in women, which I believe so that's out as well. Has she cheated on me? Maybe, I guess you never know, but if it was only for a sexual experience I'm ok with that! As long as we are emotionally bonded as husband and wife, she can fuck another man once in a while, it's only sex. It might actually make it easier for me to admit it to her!

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Maybe your wife has some secrets too.... How would you feel if she told you she has been meeting groups of black men for sex?

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Jelly1111 7 年前

Looks like were in the same boat. Good luck with a woman's mind as they can recall events very long ago. Are you getting laid at home? If not this may hurt her as she will feel inadequate. I sucked my first cock four years ago and though I know it's wrong I yearn for it every so often. Here's how the male brane works, if I start fucking a girl I consider that cheating. Fucked up right. Good luck and let us know

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blade136 出版商 8 年前

至 heather_mackenzie : What my wife? She's a 10 or 12, depending on cut, about 5'3". I'd love to hear your idea, feel free to pm me!

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heather_mackenzie 8 年前

I wonder what size she wears in dresses? lol I have an idea

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gslahhl 9 年前

I hope you check me out and leave me a comment

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blade136 出版商 9 年前

至 kumquat : Kumquat, thank you for taking the time to compose a reply. Your advice is sound and sounds very logical. These are all things I have considered. In all likelihood, I probably won't go thru with it, but it is really frustrating to have to suppress this part of me. Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it.

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kumquat 9 年前

Unless you want to take a serious chance of ending your marriage, I would keep your decision completely to yourself. This will be seen as a challenge to her own sexuality, because she can not provide all you need within your marriage. All of us who are married and attracted to CD's or TGirls face the same dilemma, if we are honest with ourselves. Be considerate of her feelings, and give her little touches to show your appreciation of her. A romantic dinner at a nice restaurant, flowers on proper occasions, if she likes them, a little gift of sexy undies or such, they all show affection, as well as the love you share. As jeper11us mentioned, it is in reality a bomb you would be dropping. Many counselors would tell you that you must be honest and reveal your feelings. Others would say that it would, at the least, drive a large wedge between you. It could also change her feelings toward you, and move her away from your normal sexual routines. After 24 years, she has a perception of you that would be turned completely around. At the minimum, I don't think you should even consider it, unless it is in conjunction with some professional counseling. You can blame yourself for asking her to consider counseling, by just saying you have feelings of inadequacy, and want to get everything back to being honest with each other. If anything does go badly, don't blame yourself. Guilt trips don't help anything, they can just lead to a bout of depression. This is very difficult, and a very personal thing, requiring a lot of thought.

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blade136 出版商 9 年前

I haven't said anything yet, but you are right it would be a big bomb. I agree that I don't want hurt her as well, its just that something is missing sexually for me with her (at times). It's not like all I would want is sex with tgirls exclusively, just once in a while. I am definitely attracted to women and my wife but I could use some cock to play with now and again.

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jeper11us 9 年前

thats a big bomb to drop on your wife, i'm in a similar situation, my wife asked me once if i'd ever had sex with men, and i choked and lied, i've wished many times i would have told her the truth, i just don't want to hurt her

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MMSdawg 9 年前

So did you do this?

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cuckoldsissycock 9 年前

once you start sucking cock and savoring the seed t will be hard to stop

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