The unofficial beginner CD strategy guide

just a summary of quick tips to pass along to first time crossdressers who are just now getting into the swing of things :)

this is all based on my personal experience, and i have a reputation for being unreliable, so don't adhere to everything here religiously.

so most first timers usually ask me about removing body hair. I usually recommend using nair. im not against using razors but nair is quicker if you have alot of ground to cover. now theres a right way and wrong way to use nair, so don't try to sue me if you use it wrong and it burns you up. test it by putting a dab on a small area and dont rub it in! wait a few minutes and wipe it off with a hot damp towel. if it burns like hell and theres no hair removal, ehhh, stick to the razor and get a refund. and for goodness sake, dont use it on your face!

now you're as smooth as a newborn naked mole rat, and you're ready to try on those cute thigh high socks, with the matching bra and panties! with underwear or lingerie, you really can't go wrong! :3 if you want to enhance your figure, i recommend investing in a girdle or waist trainer, and eventually move up to a corset once you've mastered the art of moving about gracefully while being constricted. :P

now there comes a dark hour in all our lives in which we must acknowledge that just because it looked good on the model or mannequin doesn't necessarily mean it'll look good once we're in it. but do not let this discourage you!! thats not what its about! experiment! play around, mix n match until you find a look that speaks to you and is completely your own. - that is the spirit of crossdressing.

makeup techniques vary as much as the individuals putting it on. there's no such thing as a one size fits all approach to makeup application or techniques. again, this requires alot of trial and experimentation. One fool proof suggestion is to start off using shades, highlights and colors that compliment your natural complexion, and once your satisfied, adding to the look in any fashion you desire. its another one of those things you gotta play around with to get a feel for.

for reference, I usually use various shades of liquid and powder foundation, mascara, and a color palette for my eye shadow and blush, liquid eye liner, and a bright pink matte lip lacquer, with a layer of lip gloss over it.

and the fun part, accessories! accenting your look and giving it an extra brush of personality! buy those bangles or those stripey fingerless gloves, earrings - hoops or dangly. they make snap on earrings too if you dont wana get pierced. go ahead and get that wig you eyeballed passing the beauty supply store, order it online if you want, it might be cheaper :P big glitzy false eyelashes and nails, cant go wrong with those either! once more, play around and add some flair to complete your look!

essentially, crossdressing is all about having fun and experimenting, honing your craft, looking great AND MORE IMPORTANTLY feeling great while you're at it!! Bonus points if you can pair up with a partner to, ahem, explore and exchange notes :P
发布者 CD_Lio
9 年 前
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peteey
peteey 3 年 前
So carefree and easy going I just read  because I like your personality.  If I had  a cup of coffee with you I'd probably end up hating myself later for not letting my guard down. It sucks being a little shy but the way some guy's act really disgusts me. Makes me want no part of that.  Role play is ok.  Tennis anyone ?
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JayneBrayne
JayneBrayne 5 年 前
Hey, loved your tips for TGs. Here's a couple of adds from my (sometimes bad) experiences. I used Nair to get rid of the heavy stuff and then went onto shaving but that led to the old hedgehog sensation. Not good. Now I wax, apart from down there, and the hair grows back very finely. It's a bit painful - no pain no gorgeousness! - and I swear by using teatree oil on the waxed areas afterwards and Nivea before you go to bed. Beauty salons will wax you without judgement fairly cheaply - after all, they need the business. And they can get it your back, too. But you'll probably need a men's salon to get a bikini job. Beauty salons are good places to get your ears pierced, too, or your nails done. If you're shopping for clothes online, first pick a site with a good return policy and, if unsure about sizes, a gurl friend suggests you order the same dress in two sizes so you can send the one that doesn't fit back. You're absolutely right about experimenting with make-up - and we shouldn't get too discouraged by those "fabulous" transformations young fresh-faced trans do at Youtube. We all can't be Marilyn Monroe but we can certainly be elegant refined ladies. Lastly, do go to op-shops. Mine let's me try on dresses anytime I want and I've got some real bargains there, especially jewellery. Heels can be a bit of a problem: buying site-unseen can lead to disaster. I go to Kmart or Target (whatever your discount department stores) and try on shoes surreptitiously to gauge the right sizes. Drag stores will let you try on some amazing high-heels. Finally, a site called Wigsbury does a big range of cheap artificial wigs and expensive human hair ones. On a budget, I bought two really nice ones and they look quite natural. I'm sure there's plenty of other places to buy your "crowning glory". Oh and a headband will cover up an odd-looking fringe, while a choker will hide that nasty Adams' apple. Thanx muchly for sharing - I hope other gurls do too. It adds to our knowledge of becoming real women. Happy dressing and passing, love Jayne xxx
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ShandaBlue
Love it! Kudos! Finding your right look and working it is the key. Im still a work in progress myself.
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drtang
drtang 8 年 前
Love this post. Thank You!
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jayymie 8 年 前
Thanks for sharing Jenny :smile:
Great tips & advice :heart:
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bigbbcjohnstud 8 年 前
i like to watch you transform for me
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hudsongent
Excellent advice Lio! Thank you!:smile:
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secret_sugar
secret_sugar 8 年 前
Great advice :grinning:
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SoraKH12
SoraKH12 9 年 前
Very informative. I've always been curious about this subject.
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cdDaddy
cdDaddy 9 年 前
Great advice, thanks Jenny.
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pantyluver711
pantyluver711 9 年 前
Thanks
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