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Yes, I love your galleries. I look at a lot of profiles and collect a lot of pictures. You, and a few others, have an actual grasp of the cuckold lifestyle that really attract my attention. I can actually share your material with my wife because it depicts interracial cuckold in a positive manner. Everything I post is factual, I have zero interest in fiction.

You asked if it was related to our marital situation, I guess that all depends on how you view what I am about to tell you. I see and chat to a lot of married men on sites who love the cuckold lifestyle. I usually can tell rather quickly those that are fake, meaning they have not mentioned it too their wives much less done anything. My wife and I have not done anything but we have had a long conversation(s) about her taking a black man as a lover.

I have laid all my cards on the table about living a cuckold lifestyle with me assuming a more submissive role to her and the man she chooses to be intimate with. Honestly, I was scared to death the night I brought it up to her and still get nervous at times when we are discussing in detail how to work another man into our life. You might think this is all fantasy up to this point but as it relates to us, it is very real. With it being real comes a long long process of thoughtful discussion and reassurance.

I hear and read a lot of personal stories that are garbage, save maybe a few, of how husband's describes their wives doing things that 99% of women just won't do. My wife was not into this when I first brought this up to her because, like most women in general, she isn't wired to just jump into bed with anyone, and she is a devoted wife/lover. It was actually a series of talks that moved her emotionally and eventually led to her decision.

Her decision to take a lover was based on several sensible reasons and her initial ones were she knew it would make me happy, she knew our relationship was strong, and she was admittedly curious about sleeping with a well endowed black man. Two of her initial concerns though was me being able to handle seeing her with another man and also getting jealous of them as a couple at some point. Those two issues were probably my wife's biggest barrier to overcome because she went over them with me on several occasions in detail and wanted me to realize she would not answer for how she felt once she was in bed with someone else, or what they did in bed and how I might feel later.

My wife also made it known I could not simply pull the plug on this once she became emotionally vested and if I could handle the stipulation that her interest in someone could continue even if I became "confused" and even if I mentioned my reservations I had to remember her feelings too and that she had the final say on anyone she chose to sleep with.

After those discussions my wife affirmed the change in our relationship by how she now acts and talks to me in the bedroom. Now she talks about me being her cuckold, how she wants a black man as a lover, how it will feel to be in a black man's arms. She knows how to talk to me because I've explained this is about her being intimate with a black man and that I expect it to be somewhat humbling to watch her take a man who is bigger than me.

We've read a lot, looked at images and watched homemade movies together and now my wife seems unaffected by the way she talks to me, meaning she means what she says. For instance, to make me feel good she used to praise me about my size, but since she has seen those homemade movies and images of some VERY large black men she now tells me during a blowjob "you do realize my lover will be almost twice your size" and "you like being my cuckold don't you?"

The idea her lover will be a black man holds a lot of significance with my wife and she mentions that during sex. We can be getting ready to have sex and she will say something like "I have a preference for black men now" or "I wish you were a big strong black man getting ready to make love to me." I k** you not, it's scary how good my wife is at being a cuckoldress and know I am going be nervous as hell when she actually takes someone.

The conversation is not one sided though. My wife goes nuts hearing me talk and will ask me why I want to watch her with a black man when we are in bed. The thing is though I seem to be the one who gets a case of the nerves when I try and talk to her about black men, my voice shakes and everything and she notices it. I will tell her things like "I want to watch you take a large virile black man as a lover so you can experience a passion like no other" or "Black men are superior lovers and can offer you more in bed than me." I also talk about their size to her in a manner that is intimate such as "I want see how you admire a hung black man as he undresses in our bedroom and then feel his power as he crawls between your thighs and makes love to you. Then watch as you are drawn to him by his sexual prowess." Yes, I talk like that to her.


It's crazy how far we have come in this short period of time, time being a relative term of course, and it's with the help of some of your images that got us to this point my friend.