A Bit Confused

Double standards are a Bitch! The way that things are if a guy goes and sleeps with numerous girls he is a God but if a woman takes her sex life in her control she is either a Slut or an Ice Queen because she is choosey as to who she sleeps with. I have slept with numerous guys but not a whole lot but one guy gets you in the sheets spreads it around and the next thing you know every guy is after you because he thinks you are easy and then when you turn them down you are an Ice Queen! I mean really guys what do you want?
I don't sleep with a guy on the first date or even the second or the third I am not easy but in time I will give it up if we get to the point where I am into it and feel it is the next step. I am a very sexual person I enjoy sex and have seeked it out when I am horny and have a had a FEW one night stands but then I get labeled as an easy slut! Sorry if this is rant but I am a bit pissed at guys right now!
I am a very open person comfortable in my own skin so posting nudes of myself is not a big jump but I am sure since I do that a lot of guys think "oh yes she is a horny slut" I bet she is easy! Sorry to disappoint guys but I am not, you will not get lucky with me on the first date not how it works! OK end of rant!!!
发布者 sheishy
6 年 前
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I agree with you 100%
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DrWhoWhatandWhere
You owe no one an explanation for your behavior. Sure it is frustrating to be labeled but those who do are small people. The double standard will likely never go away and as you say "you are comfortable in your own skin" so f them all. Continue to rant about this if you wish because it is not fair....you have every right. 
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RustyShacklefor
RustyShacklefor 6 年 前
I think that the double standard is wrong and also guys on here need to learn that when a woman on here is being open about her promiscuity, it's not an invitation that she will automatically sleep with you. We are all human beings on here with thoughts, feelings, ideas, passions, and turn-ons. We should all respect that and treat each other that way. I've hooked up with two women off here and the key is to treat them as human beings while respecting their sexuality and their kinks. It's not worth your time and energy to deal with people who will slut-shame you or think less of you because you won't sleep them while being open about your sexuality. Keep your head up!
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badmanbean
badmanbean 6 年 前
I agree with you! I think more women should take their sex life in their own hands and thumb their nose at what society and what other people think. We are all responsible for our own happiness not for everyone else's live for yourself and not everyone else!
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gpa001
gpa001 6 年 前
don't worry about, you can't control what other people will think. there standards are not your standards. that is there problem and not problem
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sheishy 出版商 6 年 前
Higball : thank you for the comment it is nice to know I was just not shouting at the rain!
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Higball
Higball 6 年 前
Don't be upset if a guy doesn't enjoy the chace of dating you a first then he doesn't deserve the rewards of you
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