Social Taboo - Older VS Young.
In 1971 Hal Ashby made a Dark Comedy on this subject, & for many it like The Rocky Horror Picture Show - a cult classic. How a Young man obese with Death & Funeral, & inner anger total family problems of an cover controlling mother. Learn to enjoy, & Discover there is LIFE & Happiness, But at the hands of a 79 years old woman. Ruth Gordon and Bud Cort, give a view of young & old love in a time of The Hippies, Vietnam War, & The Assassination of Political & Civil Liberties figures.
You had society recovering from the revolution of the 60's & crying for the return of the 50's. Were couple slept in separate beds on TV, to Sex, d**gs & Rock & Roll. But we forget that 60's was a result of an action taken after WWII.
I always saw Newtons 3 Law, to be the law of life too. (Third law: The mutual forces of action and reaction between two bodies are equal, opposite and collinear), or Very every action There is an opposite reaction.
1940's WWII, we have a drop in birth rates, Because GI Joe, is WWII, after the war. GI Joe comes, home & does like the Queen Song, " Get Down make Love". Such the Baby Boom. Now 60's there are more Young People, than older People. The Majority is young age(now were faced with them being latino), & there asking for equal Right. LIGHT BULB, Start a WAR, & kill off the youth(theory I heard from a baby boomer), & quiet the radicals.
Sorry, I drifted off on that footnote. But Young & Old was a Taboo. & for a Young adult to be in love with a women old enough to be his grandmother, But Why. As Harold Priest is saying, that the thought of a saggy old woman body next to a younger mans body makes me sick to my stomach. But what really catapulted heart of Harold was that Maude should him the joy in living for the first time.
MAUDE = Ah, me. Free as a bird. You know, at one time I used to break into pet shops and liberate the canaries, but I decided that was an idea way before its time. Zoos are full, prisons are overflowing. Ah, my. How the world still dearly loves a cage.
MAUDE = A lot of people enjoy being dead. But they are not dead, really. They're just backing away from life. Reach out. Take a chance. Get hurt even. But play as well as you can. Go team, go! Give me an "L". Give me an "I". Give me a "V". Give me an "E". L-I-V-E. LIVE! Otherwise, you got nothing to talk about in the locker room.
I ran across the following comments from actor Catherine Zeta-Jones, married to fellow actor Michael Douglas, 25 years her senior; she had been asked about her preference for older men. She replied that she finds younger men selfish and narcissistic, and that although “young men are more unbiased, playful and firmer,” she had no interest in dating them.
Often the younger is accused of having the need for a parental figure, and the older is accused of need for an especially energetic sexual partner,perhaps because of their own diminished virility. Some believe that older men aren’t capable of sex at all, at least not good sex, or that they shouldn’t be.
But could it be for some, that our 1st experience was an older authority figure; who took control & taught us what to do? And we get programed that we need someone older to be with? Someone to teach & coach us?
Could it be that, we wants to have a safe clean relationship. Or like Ms. Zeta-Jones, that young men are selfish and narcissistic and more interested in chasing one more orgasm than spending the time to make love. They perceived the older men to be more sensitive, caring and romantic, self-assured and satisfied with their lives. They wanted relationships based on emotions and feelings rather than stuff.
Could we look for a lack of Parental figure that an older man can fill, both voids. Could be you feel you world is so out of control we need an older person, to come take control, & get us out of the hole were in ?
Could be we want a Suger-Parent to support us, because were too materialistic. & we need Trophy Spouses. Like in a somewhat like a Ana Nicole Smith, Jack-O. The negative side of an Younger Older relationship. Or like all the playboy bunnies that hang on Hugh Hefner & push Larry Flynt Wheel Chair.
Could be that older person, showed & taught us to enjoy LIFE again. That they show what was really wrong with us, got us back on track & living with a direction & road to wellness. Sometimes are life was so fucked up & dysfunctional we need a person who, we need a person who has there life on track, & usually, it happens when we hit our 40's -50's for men. And helps the person go from Dysfunction to Function
Conjunction Junction, what's your dysfunction?
when older & younger is a person of age of age (over 21) with a person not of age(under 18). Because then you leave the other person, with emotional issues later in life. Because SEX is an adult motional issue, & as c***dren were not emotional ready for that. AND WHEN THAT DOES HAPPEN, we advance a c***d to adult, & they lose out on being a c***d. So later they act like c***dren, because they never got to play/experience that point in their life.
Because Older Younger is 20-40 or 40-60 , NOT! school age - Over 21
But we need to look at our own-self & ask why 1st. Is it for good go with it & enjoy it. But if your doing for fame, wealth,& fortune threw the hand of a mature person. Beware of the return of bad to for the bad you did (Karma)(You receive blessing in your hand with closed fists). Just another way to look at it.
Now, I don't want to get off on a rant here, but......of course, that's just my opinion. I could be wrong. Until next time, take care of yourselves and each other
Aw, fuck it. Who wants pie?
You had society recovering from the revolution of the 60's & crying for the return of the 50's. Were couple slept in separate beds on TV, to Sex, d**gs & Rock & Roll. But we forget that 60's was a result of an action taken after WWII.
I always saw Newtons 3 Law, to be the law of life too. (Third law: The mutual forces of action and reaction between two bodies are equal, opposite and collinear), or Very every action There is an opposite reaction.
1940's WWII, we have a drop in birth rates, Because GI Joe, is WWII, after the war. GI Joe comes, home & does like the Queen Song, " Get Down make Love". Such the Baby Boom. Now 60's there are more Young People, than older People. The Majority is young age(now were faced with them being latino), & there asking for equal Right. LIGHT BULB, Start a WAR, & kill off the youth(theory I heard from a baby boomer), & quiet the radicals.
Sorry, I drifted off on that footnote. But Young & Old was a Taboo. & for a Young adult to be in love with a women old enough to be his grandmother, But Why. As Harold Priest is saying, that the thought of a saggy old woman body next to a younger mans body makes me sick to my stomach. But what really catapulted heart of Harold was that Maude should him the joy in living for the first time.
MAUDE = Ah, me. Free as a bird. You know, at one time I used to break into pet shops and liberate the canaries, but I decided that was an idea way before its time. Zoos are full, prisons are overflowing. Ah, my. How the world still dearly loves a cage.
MAUDE = A lot of people enjoy being dead. But they are not dead, really. They're just backing away from life. Reach out. Take a chance. Get hurt even. But play as well as you can. Go team, go! Give me an "L". Give me an "I". Give me a "V". Give me an "E". L-I-V-E. LIVE! Otherwise, you got nothing to talk about in the locker room.
I ran across the following comments from actor Catherine Zeta-Jones, married to fellow actor Michael Douglas, 25 years her senior; she had been asked about her preference for older men. She replied that she finds younger men selfish and narcissistic, and that although “young men are more unbiased, playful and firmer,” she had no interest in dating them.
Often the younger is accused of having the need for a parental figure, and the older is accused of need for an especially energetic sexual partner,perhaps because of their own diminished virility. Some believe that older men aren’t capable of sex at all, at least not good sex, or that they shouldn’t be.
But could it be for some, that our 1st experience was an older authority figure; who took control & taught us what to do? And we get programed that we need someone older to be with? Someone to teach & coach us?
Could it be that, we wants to have a safe clean relationship. Or like Ms. Zeta-Jones, that young men are selfish and narcissistic and more interested in chasing one more orgasm than spending the time to make love. They perceived the older men to be more sensitive, caring and romantic, self-assured and satisfied with their lives. They wanted relationships based on emotions and feelings rather than stuff.
Could we look for a lack of Parental figure that an older man can fill, both voids. Could be you feel you world is so out of control we need an older person, to come take control, & get us out of the hole were in ?
Could be we want a Suger-Parent to support us, because were too materialistic. & we need Trophy Spouses. Like in a somewhat like a Ana Nicole Smith, Jack-O. The negative side of an Younger Older relationship. Or like all the playboy bunnies that hang on Hugh Hefner & push Larry Flynt Wheel Chair.
Could be that older person, showed & taught us to enjoy LIFE again. That they show what was really wrong with us, got us back on track & living with a direction & road to wellness. Sometimes are life was so fucked up & dysfunctional we need a person who, we need a person who has there life on track, & usually, it happens when we hit our 40's -50's for men. And helps the person go from Dysfunction to Function
Conjunction Junction, what's your dysfunction?
when older & younger is a person of age of age (over 21) with a person not of age(under 18). Because then you leave the other person, with emotional issues later in life. Because SEX is an adult motional issue, & as c***dren were not emotional ready for that. AND WHEN THAT DOES HAPPEN, we advance a c***d to adult, & they lose out on being a c***d. So later they act like c***dren, because they never got to play/experience that point in their life.
Because Older Younger is 20-40 or 40-60 , NOT! school age - Over 21
But we need to look at our own-self & ask why 1st. Is it for good go with it & enjoy it. But if your doing for fame, wealth,& fortune threw the hand of a mature person. Beware of the return of bad to for the bad you did (Karma)(You receive blessing in your hand with closed fists). Just another way to look at it.
Now, I don't want to get off on a rant here, but......of course, that's just my opinion. I could be wrong. Until next time, take care of yourselves and each other
Aw, fuck it. Who wants pie?
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