So anyways. Went on a first date with this really cute guy the other night. We were out having dinner and we really hit it off. Dinner conversation was really engaging, he was very friendly and nice, gave me genuine sincere compliments. We were really having fun. Went to a popular restaurant so we kinda had a long walk back to the car. As we were walking we were holding hands and kissing along the way. Asking each other questions, the kind of questions you ask someone you are romantically interested in. Things were going great until he asked me the question, "If you could go anywhere in the world to visit where would you go?" I told him in the middle of kissing him I would want to go to Paris, France. He replied with the sentiment that he would never go to France. I asked him well why not. This is where the bottom fell out. He went on a jaw-dropping monologue about how French people were dirty, stinky, slutty, whorish and weak and proceeded to give me a history lesson on how quickly the French caved to the Nazis, how French women were gross because they dont shave their armpits and how basically French people are whores. Basically a lesson in cultural stereotypes. I couldnt believe it. He tried kissing me after that, but I wasn't having any of it at that point. Those of you who have been here for a long while know that I am a very French girl with over 60% of my ancestry coming from France. But I never told him that. I didnt think it was so relevant. My feelings were really hurt at this point. I may have even started crying. I honestly dont remember. I informed him of my ancestry but he kept up with his pride sticking to his racist routine, he also talked about how he sees Mexicans and other ethnicities. "I was having a really good time with you", I told him. "Why are you saying these things?" I had enough of him. He replied with something like, "it figures...this always happens to me" or something like that. I informed him exactly what I thought of him...that he was an asshole. A few minutes later, I stomped off in the opposite direction heard him yell, "Fuck!!!" very loudly and called an Uber and got the fuck out of there. Since then, he has apologized to me but keeps blowing up my phone. Curious as to your thoughts. Would you give a guy like that a second chance? Would you even talk to him at all? I have to be honest. I never saw something like this coming. Right now I am perfectly happy to just ghost his ass. Your thoughts?
