ColorRush- Help!! Co-worker issues!!






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So anyways. This is really kinda starting to bother me. Allow me to vent if anything else. So...today I was assigned at work to work with a male co-worker throughout the day. Some of these are cases where I train new employees but not always. Today, I am working with a male co-worker and he begins to tell me about his sexual history. About the women he has slept with, where they were from, their ages, and the circumstances in which he scored. This is the 3rd time this has happened in the past two weeks. It has happened twice with men and once with women. Why does everyone feel the need to tell me about their sexual history when I dont even know these fucking people? I assure you my job has absolutely nothing to do with sex. In anyway whatsoever. I have never brought up the subject of sex with these co-workers.
LET ME REPEAT THAT. I have NEVER (nor would I ever) brought up the subject of sex with my co-workers. Why do they feel the need to bring it up with me?!? Today was especially disturbing. Now, dont get me wrong. No one would ever mistake me for a sexual prude. But why do guys (and girls for that matter) that I work with constantly feel the need to discuss their sexual history with me? The guy I was with today I could tell was either completely full of shit about his conquests or was just bragging. He even "scored" other women in front of me and said disgusting things about what he would do to some of these other girls in front of me to the point where I thought he was a total fucking pig. He talked about which countries he has scored with girls in. He went into graphic detail about some of this. I am actually thinking about saying something to management about this. I am not a fucking sex ther****t. I repeat I am not a fucking sex ther****t. But for some reason male and female co-workers make it a point to brag or open up about their sexual history and/or fantasies around me. What is the cause of this? It is really beginning to bother me. Why do people I dont even know feel the need to tell me about their sexual conquests? I just dont get it. I dont associate with any of these people outside of work in any capacity whatsoever. Any perspective you can add would be helpful.

Please help.
Love Always,
Getting sick of being treated like a sex-ther****t by co-workers
Christine
5 年 前
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capecrusader 2 年 前
Maybe its their way of hoping to gain your interest, Tell them no sex Talk. I wonder if they know about your site?
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fem2be
fem2be 3 年 前
I encountered this with a woman coworker, who told me, in the middle of the office, that her ex gf said this coworker was very good with her hands. So, I mistakenly thought it'd be fine to discreetly leave her a letter noting my interests in crossdressing, and of course the next week she ceased all communications and acted like I was the biggest disgustoid on the planet. I had never felt so betrayed. I should've never communicated anything other than telling her this made me uncomfortable, and reported her to HR for putting me in that position. 
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lustydick
lustydick 5 年 前
I think this is completely unacceptable behavior and people who do this truly are rude fucking pigs! Honestly though, you shouldn't have to deal with that anywhere, let alone in the workplace. My recommendation would be to contact your HR and inform them of his behavior, and how uncomfortable it made you feel, and I'd hope other than that you shouldn't have to be the one to deal with that person again if your workplace has a code of conduct that must be followed.
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pete8889
pete8889 5 年 前
How did you react when these people told you about their sexual experiences?
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domdomdomdom
domdomdomdom 5 年 前
It's worth keeping a record of the instances, should the workplace situation get worse : in case, at some point you do have to make a formal complaint.
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Anonwhymous
Anonwhymous 5 年 前
I honestly don't know. I hope writing this helped a bit though x
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