Rudeness - Cheffan

A member who goes by Cheffan contacts me on June 4th telling me that I have a nice piercing. I reply and tell him thanks. Immediately, he goes on this idiotic train of sexual talk, mostly with his incoherent and shitty spelling and grammar that I cannot make out half the time. So each time, I tell him to stick to writing to me for what my profile says I am here for. Each time, shitty spelling and grammar comes back that is incoherent and vague, meaningless comments and answers. Again, I kindly ask him what's relevant, to stick to profile criteria for writing to me and asked his purpose of writing to me was for. And yet again, shitty incoherent comments. At times, I'm ignored upward to a week or so at a time, as I see him signed in and out regularly here and I repeatedly reply and encourage him to respond. Finally, he does, and like clockwork, shitty incoherency. Finally he tells me that he "doesn't know what to say" when I ask him why he's written, where this conversation is going or for what's relevant to my profile. I reply, telling him that if he never knows what to talk about with me or cannot keep balanced and coherent conversation, then why did he write to me from the start if my profile criteria is contrary to everything he's doing? In the same message, I give him a very FRIENDLY forewarning and I tell him that if I'm blocked, ignored or otherwise retorted on in any way, I'll post him on public exposure to the WAMIA community for his behavior. He overrode my warning (see pic below), so here he is now on my post and is being mirrored to WAMIA for everyone to see. This is what happens when nice women exist here, then are mistreated, profiles not read, ignored replies to and now blocked by someone....all for being a genuinely nice person from the start to open his message, read it and to respond and accept his offer to chat. Go figure!
I thank the group for help in composing this and photo edits. Many thanks! Please mirror.

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发布者 Motsotj

5 年前

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Motsotj 出版商 5 年前

Thank you for being kosher and respectful in acknowledging. The reason it hits hard is because I also have a family member who suffers from mental retardation. It's now commonly scaled down to the term which most properly call an 'intellectual disability'. Most people do not understand the distress or disrespect it brings to those who have issues or to the family members of those people when others are using derogatory terms like 'retard', 'retarded', 'fucktard' or 'tard' to describe people who are basically foolish or idiots. I know you weren't intentionally trying to be disrespectful...which is the point I make. Most people don't find it wrong to say these words until/unless you personally know someone who has a mental issue. At that point, it's no longer funny or cool to use. In fact, there are even campaigns out there which urge people to drop the "R" (retard/retarded) word. In the 1970's and 1980's this might have been accepted in society as being a go-to word in vocabulary to describe someone sarcastically as being foolish or stupid, but no longer in 2019.

I still disagree, mental retardation is a disability, being that someone was born with this permanent condition, whereas an illness is something that evolves throughout the course of someone's life.
Disability: A physical or mental condition that limits a person's movements, senses, or activities.
Illness: A disease or period of sickness affecting the body or mind.

Nevertheless, I'm glad you can relate to it in a certain sense and I appreciate you being respectful in the matter.

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Motsotj 出版商 5 年前

至 studsud : You're absolutely correct!

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Motsotj 出版商 5 年前

It's true that there are a lot of idiots on here and I think that the entire scene of online anything that pertains to sex has gone to hell in a handbag due to the behavioral issues, along with the level of ignorance and vague shitty grammar and basic social skills, as well. In short, most real women who seem to exist on sites like these keep their distance and rarely chat, associate or want to have anything to do with men on here anymore. Those who do are very selective. So yeah, I agree with what you have to say.

And by the way, it's NOT at all cool that you use "fucktard" in your every day vocabulary. That's not boosting your level of intelligence up any by needlessly implementing or implying 'retard' or 'retarded' into your language in the year 2019. This is a degrading word when used in a derogatory manner against the mentally disabled, so please show respect and refrain from that kind of hate speech.

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Motsotj 出版商 5 年前

So true and it happens to us more than we care to admit. It's kind of why that whole WAMIA thing exists anymore for exposing the bad behavior. Thanks for the nice comment.

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studsud 5 年前

lol he was a douche from the start. gives the good ones on here a bad name

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