Discovery

Wow! I just discovered we have a weblog feature here on xhamster.

What is there to write about? I know--sex. Haha that *is* why I'm here. Yesterday, I had one of my erotic conversations with a friend here on xhamster; it is one of my favorite diversions during a stressful day. It is sooo refreshing afterwards, my knees weak, face flushed, and tingly down there. I wonder if any of my colleagues do this too? (I wonder which of my colleagues I would do this to, too!)

Sex and especially this sort of sex--chatting erotically with "strangers" is very taboo. And yet it is so powerfully good. Why is that? If it weren't taboo, would we lose our fun? Is there a sex paradox?

发布者 modelmaven

11 年前

modelmaven 出版商 1 年前

Yes me too!

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-Snap-Crotch-Beaver- 2 年前

Best thing for amutrues here too

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Nickyhere 3 年前

With strangers we can say whatever we want. They don’t know us. Anything!

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munchinguToo 8 年前

I have always found it interesting on how we can share our deepest most intimate and kinky thoughts with perfect strangers....versus our friends and spouses....I myself love this and have some of my most powerful orgasms while doing this...

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nighttonic 8 年前

Why would it be taboo? Taboo comes from times when in order to have a sex chat you needed someone in front of you, and that invariably resulted in, well, real sex - and real pregnancy. Here there is no risk getting dirty with a stranger. It could turn me on to sex up my lady in ways I never did before, and she benefits. Kind of wish I caught her doing what I'm doing. I'ld tell her not to stop. I'ld go down on her while she's surfing.

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modelmaven 出版商 8 年前

Yes--this is true and why I am still here after years of flirting!

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tempta99 9 年前

There is no paradox, taboo is sexy... and sexy chats with strangers can be so arousing

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Talon_1965 9 年前

I used to sex chat all the time at work but they cracked down by limiting just about everything that isn't work related. However, I can always use my breaks and send a few naughty lines on my phone.

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kerr247 9 年前

interesting outlook

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cumpstonst 10 年前

至 cumpstonst : And by the way, I don't think this situation would have happened had we not met through Craigslist and never met in person.

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cumpstonst 10 年前

I have to tell of one exquisite situation that came up somewhat along these lines, Maven. I met a lady via Craigslist. She lived about 100 miles south of me and, as it turned out, we never met in person. Initially we emailed and did IM on yahoo. Pictures were exchanged, some sexual, some not. A couple times we ended up masturbating together on the phone. Quite good I might add. It turned out that one of the fantasies she had long had, not yet done, was to masturbate in a public place with people near but not to be discovered. We ended up planning something for her. She worked in an office that had her often wearing a headset for phone communications. I had her purchase a tiny vibrator that she could wear inside her panties, remote controlled. I'd call in the middle of a work shift at a pre-arranged time. She'd say very little and largely pretend not to be on a call but would listen to me while I stroked my rigid lust slowly, tormenting her with my words. Of course by this time she had seen a number of pictures of me naked, erect, my face included so she knew full well what I looked like. She would, at a certain point, activate the mini-vibrator whilst listening to me. We'd both end up having incredible orgasms. Of course for her, she had to be utterly quiet and still. It wasn't easy, obviously, but the the self-control to not display what was happening combined with being around other people in her office, combined with my dirty talk and the tiny vibrator, made her have the strongest orgasms of her life. To make matters worse, I'd turn my cam on and videotape me masturbating while I was talking to her. I'd send highlights of those videos to her later, a whole other type of information that heightened masturbation. We did this 3 or 4 times in her office in addition to numerous times on the phone. We never ended up meeting and I don't really know what happened to her as we faded apart. Nevertheless, the extremity of the lust and pleasure we got from this was insanely good. I still make myself cum looking at those videos and listening to me talking to her knowing she was trying to keep it together sitting in her office up to the point she couldn't control it and had staggering orgasms. Oh my. I can still hear that stuttered breathing as she came......

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cumpstonst 10 年前

I understand the power of this sort of erotic interaction very well. I've done quite a lot of it in my life, even before internet made it so easy. I think for me, the aspect of raw honesty gives it the power to heighten lust and sensation so greatly. For me, I never fantasized about, for example, movie stars. Nor do I get off on fantasizing about crazy, surreal situations that would never happen. I like exploring the mental side of fantasies with women based on our actual desires, ones that could become real, or have been. With strangers, people you'll likely never meet in person, this kind of honesty is easier to achieve, at least often times, than in our 'real lives'. We can express that stuff w/out fear of being judged, or being stigmatized by friends or lovers. It's pure, raw lust. Unapologetic. Brutally honest and, in the context of chat/phone/cam, we've no reason to underplay or deny that the reason we're doing it, sharing it, is purely for the sexual rush of it. The arousal, arousing the other, the heightened states of being radically turned on and, finally, the sometimes cathartic orgasmic releases. Cumming together. Body rushing hearing that other person about to topple over the edge into uncontrollable orgasmic power.... it's great. A hugely satisfying way to be turned on, to cum. It's also hugely educational to talk about fantasies with other people, learning how they feel and think about it, how they respond to my perspectives and I to their's. This kind of communication, aside the intense amplification it can give masturbation, has also informed my "real" sex life and made me a better lover, more adventurous, more confident to explore the outer edges of the erotic, erogenous world, greater able to bring my partners to new levels of pleasure.

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