The first question that most people that are not “into” spanking ask, is why spanking? There are so many reasons that spanking is appealing to consenting adults as a way to spice up their love life. At its very root, I think the simplest answer is that it takes the concept of general dominance and submission, which many couples practice in some form, to the next level. Many couples probably do not believe that they are dominant or submissive in their sexual behavior, but I think it exists on many levels. It can be as simple as a “rough sex”, fingernails down the back, a tug of the hair, or pin… 阅读更多内容

By request, I am reposting this article that explores some of the more difficult aspects of our fetish. This is a difficult topic to explore and one that I have always had trouble putting into words. As many times as I have tried, I have never been able to articulate this point very effectively. Regardless, I thought I would go ahead and give it a shot as a blog entry. Let's start with the difficult questions and see if we can find something resembling an answer. -Why do so many spanking videos feature situations that feel like a c***d in trouble getting spanked by a parent? -Why are ther… 阅读更多内容