They say it's hard to love others if you don't love yourself. Does loving yourself mean keeping your body fit and well-nourished? I think it does. We all have gifts differing as far as beauty, just as with physical prowess at sports, or intellectual or musical talent, or creativity. It is how we make the most of our talents to have fulfilling lives, that matters. A person in a wheelchair cannot aspire to some things, a person with no musical acuity cannot become a musician. We make of life what we can. This is why some men with very small penises learn to derive pleasure from humiliation and t… 阅读更多内容
25, an erotic poem by Kim Moore
25 by Kim Moore If I’m ever bored of monogamy, I’ll come and find you, we’ll go to bed and do things we would not do with any other (I will not name them here.) I don’t blame you for asking, I blame you for not asking sooner. I used to think you were a user. I thought I knew what a user was. I thought it was just lust but you were the best at some things, the best that I’ve known. How we pretended none of it mattered! It’s splendid to look back on it now, it was splendid to know you. If I’m ever bored of monogamy I know who to turn to.… 阅读更多内容
She seems to me (after Sappho)
She seems to me (after Sappho) A poem by Kim Moore, 2024 She seems to me to be a woman I should hate because she’s sitting close to you. I tell myself sternly that hating another woman is not a feminist thing to do but then she twists her hair around her finger. I watch as your eyes linger on her hands. I think of Pope: And Beauty draws us with a single Hair and it’s then I know I’m lost. I turn to my dull-faced companion, laugh louder, harder, but the sound is an out-of-tune orchestra in my ears. And I feel foolish and alone, as if I was never loved. I say good ni… 阅读更多内容
Gina Gerson - A Special Lady in Porn
Gina Gerson is a cut above most porn stars. Now 12 years in porn with over 900 credits, and has worked with 175 men and 226 women. She has over 250 anal scenes, 73 DPs and 150 lesbian-only scenes. She did DP in her first few months in porn. She has done a handful of pee scenes but they don't seem to be her preference. Anything she does has an added spark of hotness. But her life story is quite amazing. She was born in south-western Siberia, People say she is Russian, but the small coal-mining town she's from (Prokoviesk) is the same distance from Tehran, Kabul Beijing and Moscow. At 21 s… 阅读更多内容
Ava Marina, a beautiful debut
Ava Marina makes her Porn Debut I don't often write in detail about individual porn scenes, but sometimes a special one comes along. We cannot post links her anymore, but the scene is easy to find having just been released on 12th September 2024 by E C G. What is enjoyable about this one, is that Tyler Nixon did an absolutely perfect job, a masterclass in teaching a new female talent the basics of porn performance, while being considerate and respecting the fact that he was getting to fuck a girl with very limited prior experience but with a sense of joy and innocence abo… 阅读更多内容
The Tree (from The Songs of Bilitis)
THE TREE STRIPPED of my clothes, naked, I climbed into a tree. My bare thighs in a close embrace pressed the smooth damp bark. My sandals trod upon the branches. Almost at the top, but still under the leaves in the shadow from the heat, I put myself astride of a pro- jecting branch, my legs dangling in the air. The rain came, and cool drops fell upon me and ran over my skin. My hands were soiled with moss, and my toes were red with the juice of crushed flowers. I felt the life of the beautiful tree when the wind blew through its branches. Then I pressed my thighs together in an ecstasy, a… 阅读更多内容
What Sex Therapists Wish You Knew
What Sex Therapists Wish You Knew <div>We asked nearly a dozen experts in sex and intimacy for the advice they repeat again and again. For starters, they said, don’t get so hung up on how often you have, or want, sex.</div><div> </div><div>By Catherine Pearson</div><div>Aug 2024 </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>1. Comparison is the thief of sexual joy.</div><div>Lori Brotto, a psychologist and professor at the University of British Columbia who is the author of “Better Sex Through Mindfulness,” spends a lot of time trying to persuade people to discard the concept of a “… 阅读更多内容
Jeane Marie - Hot Habibi
Jeane Marie - Hot Habibi { hook } He call me his spicy hot habibi I do it & make it look easy yehh I tell him boy u lucky if u see me These bitches watching me like i'm on tv yeh I look good I feel good I taste good My flights booked I got him hooked He call me every night Cause i fuck good He know was good { verse 1 } Ain't none to it I know what u doing He look at my hair and see i'm blonde but i ain't stupid When i walk away i know all eyes be on my booty Is it soft like a twinkie hell yea lil' bitch U can look but don't touch might let u smell that's it They like where… 阅读更多内容
A Poem For drtylilcumslt
The Lake Isle of Innisfree I will arise and go now, and go to Innisfree, And a small cabin build there, of clay and wattles made; Nine bean-rows will I have there, a hive for the honey-bee, And live alone in the bee-loud glade. And I shall have some peace there, for peace comes dropping slow, Dropping from the veils of the morning to where the cricket sings; There midnight’s all a glimmer, and noon a purple glow, And evening full of the linnet’s wings. I will arise and go now, for always night and day I hear lake water lapping with low sounds by the shore; While I stand on the roadwa… 阅读更多内容
Hedy Lamarr: from Siren to Scientist
Hedy Lamarr: from Siren to Scientist Hedy Lamarr was originally Hedwig Eva Kiesler, born in Vienna, Austria on November 9th, 1914 into a well-to-do Jewish family. An only offspring. Lamarr received a great deal of attention from her father, a bank director and curious man, who inspired her to look at the world with open eyes. He would often take her for long walks where he would discuss the inner-workings of different machines, like the printing press or street cars. These conversations guided Lamarr’s thinking and at only 5 years of age, she could be found taking apart and reassemb… 阅读更多内容
Kagney Linn Karter
Kagney Linn Necessary March 28, 1987 - February 15, 2024 In February this year, Kagney Linn Karter (real surname Necessary) ended her own life. When the news broke, I remembered seeing her interviewed by the British documetary maker Louis Theroux, for his 2012 film "Twilight of the Porn Stars". At that time, Kagney was at the height of her success in porn. She was articulate, clear-headed and had a medium-term plan for her career. At that time, she was living with her partner who was non-industry. By the following ear, that relationship had eded, and Kagney told an interviewe… 阅读更多内容
The Pornographic Imagination (Sontag, 1969)
SUSAN SONTAG: SEVEN THESES FROM ‘THE PORNOGRAPHIC IMAGINATION’ From Styles of Radical Will (Penguin Classics, 2009; originally published in 1969) THESIS ONE The pornographic imagination has its peculiar access to some truth. This truth—about sensibility, about sex, about individual personality, about despair, about limits—can be shared when it projects itself into art. THESIS TWO Everyone, at least in dreams, has inhabited the world of the pornographic imagination for some hours or days or even longer periods of his life; but only the full-time residents make the feti… 阅读更多内容
The First Time with Driss (erotic story)
from The Almond by Nedjima The Story Badra is a 22-year-old Muslim widow who flees the small North African town of Imchouk and a bad 5-year marriage to an older man, to take refuge with her Uncle Slimane's iconoclastic ex-wife. In Imchouk, it was expected that Badra's life should be limited by her husband's wishes, but at Aunt Selma's, Badra begins to think about how she wants to live from now on. She recalls her youthful curiosity about sex — what other girls' and women's bodies were like, her first attempts to spy on men, her fascination with the two beautiful pro s tit… 阅读更多内容
Throbbing Gristle Founder Explores Porn as Art
Throbbing Gristle Founder Explores Porn as Art in Memoir Industrial music pioneer Cosey Fanni Tutti on why she was called one of the "wreckers of civilization" by government official By Judy Berman. Rolling Stone May 17, 2017 A young woman, naked except for a pair of thigh-high nylons and a fur stole draped between her breasts, reclines on her back. Her dark hair is mussed, her mouth hangs open and her left hand curls suggestively over her pubic hair. It’s an alluring photograph, but also an unremarkable one. The stockings and the orgasmic facial expression and… 阅读更多内容
Shemale Soapland Scene 3 - Pornographic Art
Shemale Soapland Scene 3 - Pornographic Art https://xhamster.com/videos/shemalesoapland-scene-3-xhPYcLQ The title of this little gem of a film belies the fact that it is a full three-act play within itself. I came across it today by serendipity. It brought joy to my morning, an unexpected treasue! For me, it is a truly great piece of erotic cinema. I was compelled to describe in detail just some of the elements that struck me with their beauty. I describe Act 1 in detail, but the other two acts are just as well-choreographed and filmed. A hat tip to @Hiruusman who said it was o… 阅读更多内容
The House by Warsan Shire
The House BY WARSAN SHIRE i Mother says there are locked rooms inside all women; kitchen of lust, bedroom of grief, bathroom of apathy. Sometimes the men - they come with keys, and sometimes, the men - they come with hammers. ii Nin soo joog laga waayo, soo jiifso aa laga helaa, I said Stop, I said No and he did not listen. iii Perhaps she has a plan, perhaps she takes him back to hers only for him to wake up hours later in a bathtub full of ice, with a dry mouth, looking down at his new, neat procedure. iv I point to my body and say Oh this old thi… 阅读更多内容
A Meeting by Edith Wharton
A Meeting On a sheer peak of joy we meet; Below us hums the abyss; Death either way allures our feet If we take one step amiss. One moment let us drink the blue Transcendent air together— Then down where the same old work’s to do In the same dull daily weather. We may not wait . . . yet look below! How part? On this keen ridge But one may pass. They call you—go! My life shall be your bridg. -Edith Wharton Note : Edith Wharton was a lesbian… 阅读更多内容
Make Love (poem)
he said, “sex doesn’t mean much to me.” i said, “then you’re doing it wrong.” Make love … Make love like you have no secrets like you’ve never been left never been hurt like the world don’t owe you a single wretched thing. – Warsan Shire… 阅读更多内容
A poet describes masturbating over her lover
lifted Is there anything more levitating than arching back and folding free the torso at the very thought of another? Not just any other, but the one. Just the pad of the finger on the place where I open and a field of birds, wings flapping furiously, rush out in the sure sense prediction of the coming storm. - Poem by Sarah, Redamancy Lit blog, 2011.… 阅读更多内容
Your Feet (poem for Toelover44)
Your Feet by Pablo Neruda When I cannot look at your face I look at your feet. Your feet of arched bone, your hard little feet. I know that they support you, and that your sweet weight rises upon them. Your waist and your breasts, the doubled purple of your nipples, the sockets of your eyes that have just flown away, your wide fruit mouth, your red tresses, my little tower. But I love your feet only because they walked upon the earth and upon the wind and upon the waters, until they found me.… 阅读更多内容